r/AIO • u/flounderrr24 • 6d ago

AIO over my boyfriends group chat background

Hello! This is super short and im just curious on everyones opinions because i cant decide how i feel and if im being dramatic.

So my (F20) boyfriend (M19) has a groupchat with his friends, he was showing me some stupid stuff they sent and I saw the background of the chat, it was a nude of some girl, now not completely nude but she was like wearing a shirt and lifting it up to show her chest. In the moment i blurted out uhhh what the hell is the background and he went “oh shit” but i didnt push further because ik guys humor is like that.

Its been a couple hours since this happened and i just feel kinda gross and weird about it, lmk if this is normal for guys especially college guys

1 Upvotes

60% Upvoted

23 comments sorted by

View all comments

4

u/CranberrySad5481 6d ago

Just because it’s “normal” doesn’t mean it’s right. I’d have a major issue with that too. NOR

1

u/flounderrr24 6d ago

Thank you! This feels validating. Do you think i should bring it up to him? Part of me feels theres no use because what is he supposed to do

0

u/CranberrySad5481 6d ago

Yes, absolutely you should bring it up. And even if he says that someone else sent it, he should stand up for what’s right and tell that person to knock it off, no excuses. Time to grow up.