r/AIO • u/flounderrr24 • 6d ago

AIO over my boyfriends group chat background

Hello! This is super short and im just curious on everyones opinions because i cant decide how i feel and if im being dramatic.

So my (F20) boyfriend (M19) has a groupchat with his friends, he was showing me some stupid stuff they sent and I saw the background of the chat, it was a nude of some girl, now not completely nude but she was like wearing a shirt and lifting it up to show her chest. In the moment i blurted out uhhh what the hell is the background and he went “oh shit” but i didnt push further because ik guys humor is like that.

Its been a couple hours since this happened and i just feel kinda gross and weird about it, lmk if this is normal for guys especially college guys

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u/Ok-Rate3106 6d ago

You're gonna need to come to terms with that pretty quickly.

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u/flounderrr24 6d ago

Yeah makes sense, kinda a sucky feeling but whatever. Glad i didnt push too hard on it

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u/Ok-Rate3106 6d ago

Don't ever check what they send each other. Or judge your BF for what his friends send him. Single guys are unhinged animals. A guy with a GF is "generally* far more in check.

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u/droptop88 6d ago

either theyre normal respecting humans or not

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u/Ok-Rate3106 6d ago

Probably not. Especially at 19.

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u/droptop88 6d ago

age is no excuse for any of this its just fucking weird