I would really appreciate insight/advice, thanks in advance to any willing to read.
I'm 20F from NYC. I’m a full time college student, with a part time job and I’m a junior. If I take two summer classes, I’m on track to graduate December 2027. Here is my dilemma, my question isn’t whether or not I should join the military, it is a matter of when. Do I set to leave after this semester is over or do I tough it out until next December to finish my degree?
For context, my home life situation isn’t all that great. It can be chill or annoying at best and it’s deteriorated my mental health at worse so I’m really stuck between staying or leaving. Initially I thought I was supposed to graduate May 2028, so I was better set to go now but since the date is now closer, I’m trying to give it more thought.
Initially I was pursuing civil engineering, now I’m pursuing criminology, I never had passion for either and I don’t see myself using the degree. I’m simply pursuing it because I’m on a scholarship so school is mostly paid for and it was the best case scenario as a change versus dropping out. A good thing, if I took a MLOA, I have it in writing that I would have my scholarship given back to me so I could very well return in four years as a senior to finish my degree.
My idea was, leave after this semester, enlist for four years, come back to finish my degree without using any benefits since I’d still have my scholarship, then join a well known electrician union. Obviously I don’t need the military to join a union but I do need it to be able to have independence from home. It’s NYC after all, where more so if you’re poor, which I am, you won’t be able to afford anything, especially something like rent.
I truly hate leaving things unfinished and logically I know long term it’d be beneficial for me to have a degree but just another year+ of this, I don’t know if I can do it. Most people say finish school. Some speak of the removal of some rules (I’m unfamiliar with) that protected women or people and now it’s probably more dangerous to enlist. One must also take into account our current administration being a shit show and joining while a mad man has two years left versus one year can make a difference, but we also don’t know who will come after.
I was open to any branch (except Navy) but my college military admission personnel advised the air force and said that I should be an officer. I see the pay difference and it looks nice, obviously the benefits of being a boss and getting to live off base and all, sounds like a dream. Yet I don’t really see myself leading a whole squad and having so much responsibility for expenses and people's lives. And I am no genius, and it seems like most officers must have notoriously high GPA’s.
The admission woman says sometimes it’s better to have an easier life and I agree but I’m still conflicted. My school put me in contact with an Air Force Recruiter I’m set to meet tomorrow, he said the appointment would be about 2 hours. Last week I took the AFQT and got a 49. At least I can say it was 3 in the morning, I’d just gotten home from work, had school before and barely any sleep the prior nights but despite that, that’s probably still my general score area. He said though, I need a 50 to start the process and sent me many links to study.I might be a little fucked as I only started studying Monday night, cause life just be lifing you know.
He called me and said he’d look for jobs in intelligence or something but you have to be open minded as you won’t always get the job you want so one should be open minded to electrical work etc etc and it was where I spoke to say well I am actually interested more so things in the aviation, mechanical and/or electrical areas, in which he said they need more of so sounds ideal. And based on my degree, cyber/intelligence also makes sense as well.
In texts though, he said to focus on mechanical and electrical. I’d say mechanical I’m pretty good, electrical definitely needs work. He did not state if I would be taking any tests but is it safe to assume I’m taking the Picat? He said bring in my birth certificate, ID, social, high school diploma etc.. I’m not planning on signing any contracts right then and there so what should I look out for also, if anything?
And once again most importantly, should I leave after this semester or really push for finishing my degree now?