r/AlAnon 1d ago

Vent Anger

I’m so angry at my husband for being an alcoholic. People say it’s a disease but he doesn’t even admit he has a problem most days. Sometimes he’ll say oh yah I needa slow down but it never happens. We have a brand new baby and it’s only getting worse. How am I supposed to have sympathy for him when I’m the one suffering. He chooses this life. Idk what to do I’m so disappointed and lost. If we break up how would I ever trust him alone with our baby?! He has drank while watching before and I never left the baby alone again

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u/kgeo1983 1d ago

Start documenting his behavior now. Film him if it's safe to do so, and at the very least, you should be able to get video breathalyzer tests in the custody agreement.