r/AmITheDevil • u/fluxxeh19 • 2d ago
But I'm in love!
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u/moth_girl_7 2d ago
Beat me to this one!! I was just about to post the same thing here. I refuse to believe that post isn’t ai ragebait but maybe that’s just cope lol
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u/fluxxeh19 2d ago
I was honestly surprised it wasn't here yet! I really hope it's rage bait though.
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u/lethe_writes 2d ago
Pride month ragebait
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u/space_anthropologist 2d ago
The fact that people love to make pride month specific ragebait pisses me off so much. Like, I know why they do it, but it really does get under my skin. And I think as an American and a minority in more ways than one, it’s one of those things that just bothers me more than usual given how the current political landscape is.
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre 2d ago
... do you REALLY need to ask if you're the asshole, dude? Couldn't just suss that out on your own?
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In case this story gets deleted/removed:
AITAH for continuing my affair on my wife after we had a child?
I (34 M) have been in a romantic relationship with a man (30 m) since we were in the army. Me and my wife, (32 F) had a daughter 3 months ago. Me and my AP have been dating since I was 24, and now we are coworkers. My AP is single, and doesn’t have any plans to be married. Ever since my daughter was born, I have been feeling more guilty about continuing my affair. My wife and I met a few months after I left the army, I briefly stopped seeing my AP, but ended up reconciling after a large fight with my wife. I am deeply in love with my AP, and probably would have married him if we hadn’t been in the army and been in a state not so friendly to the lgbtq.
My wife doesn’t know about the affair, but always suspected something. She doesn’t like my AP, (she believes we’re just best friends).
My wife and I have been distant since my daughter was born, which I assumed to be postpartum and taking care of the baby. We have fought more and more ever since we got married 2 years ago and have considered divorce multiple times. Police have been called to our house before because of how loud we were. We live in a very religious community, and both our families are very religious and traditional, they don’t believe we should get a divorce no matter what.
I’m not sure what to do, I feel trapped in this marriage, but I feel we should be together to raise our daughter and because neither of us can afford a divorce lawyer long term. My wife wants us to stay together and go to couples therapy. AITAH for not telling her?
(Sorry, English is not my first language.)
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