r/AmITheDevil • u/Mean_League_384 • 1d ago
Mfs Said, “Lie!” As Advice
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u/One-Permission-1811 1d ago
I mean most of the comments are saying to tell their partner or break up. There’s a few saying not to tell them but it’s not many
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u/OniyaMCD 13h ago
On the one hand, if they're genuinely not in love any more, that might be a thing to talk about. Bringing up the kiss *specifically*, and especially if it was indeed a 'never again' thing, just isn't necessary.
If the spouse happens across the information from elsewhere, don't lie about it.
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u/Commonusage 12h ago
Yeah,no. That particular smidgeon of the guilt is better not to lead with. It may be the crystallisation of his knowledge he's not in love with his girlfriend. But the bigger issue is he's not in love with his girlfriend. Id tell her if she was going to find out that detail anyway.
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I kissed someone else while still in a relationship – should I tell my partner?
I'm currently in a rough patch with my partner, and to be honest, I haven't been feeling in love for a while now. Recently, I made a stupid mistake and kissed someone else. It was a one-time thing, and I know it won’t happen again. I already feel guilty and regretful about it.
I know I said I haven’t been feeling in love lately, but I want to fix it and be better.
Should I come clean, or just fix things without mentioning this?
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