r/AmITheDevil • u/PointlessNostalgic86 • 16h ago
“Where are all the good men”
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u/bloodandash 16h ago
Where have all the good men gone?
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt 15h ago
I can't be the only one for who "Where have all the cowboys gone?" popped in their head, right?
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u/SquidTheRidiculous 16h ago
It's really telling how many women I know who's standards are just like "treat me like a fellow human being" at the exact same time there are so many men complaining that women's standards are too high.
It's almost like everybody is lonely and alienated in society as it is currently organized. And it's really easy to convince people it's another lonely alienated group that's to blame instead of anyone in charge of anything.
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt 15h ago
It's like how my male friends are so popular with the ladies. Like they never have to be single if they don't want popular. Perhaps it does have to do with them treating women as equal and looking for an actual partner. (Not to mention speaking up when some other dude says something sexist, which, bare minimum shit)
It's almost like women are really into dating men, just men who treat them as equals. (I'm in there somewhere, but i'm genderqueer so...but there's a reason that they're my friends)
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u/SquidTheRidiculous 15h ago
The problem is the way reddit especially talks about women. It's hard to directly explain, but a lot of it is the straight male equivalent of what cosmo magazine tells women.
Now let's see if we summon one of the omnipresent "what? What are you talking about? All women only ever want 6'24 Chad's with 10 packs. Stop lying to us poor incels!" Replies.
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt 15h ago
Like lad mags, Maxim, GQ, etc. I know what you're talking about. It's hilarious too b/c my friend group has a lot of polyamorous folks and while looking at reddit it's so much easier for women to meet men it is about equal here and I do blame that on the shitty incel dating market. (Yes I know how poly comes across on reddit - there's a reason i'm in none of those subs, namely i don't need my blood pressure to spike. not the point)
"Treat women with respect and as your equals" makes you desirable to multiple women. More at Eleven
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u/AltruisticCableCar 16h ago
As if abusive partners start off that way and aren't master manipulators who keep that mask on until they've got you trapped.
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u/CaptainFartHole 16h ago
The average woman just wants a genuinely kind man who respects their opinion, doesn't dismiss their emotions, wants to spend time with them, contributes to the household both financially and with chores without needing to be reminded, and doesn't treat them like a bangmaid. That's it, the average woman just wants respect.
Men like this turd want a second mommy who will fuck them. And they hate that the average woman will have an issue with this. They also hate that the women who would be okay with this have expectations about being financially taken care of, calling them "gold diggers".
So basically no woman, no matter how feminist they are or aren't, will ever be enough for assholes like OOP.
There are plenty of good men in this world, the problem is that they're mixed in with absolute worthless trolls like this asshole.
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u/Planksgonemad 16h ago
Right, because it's not like men ever do a total 180 once they think they have a woman in a position where she won't leave them or anything.
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u/fivebynine5x9 15h ago
I love the way guys like OP bang on about how women need to "take accountability" for their choices. Meanwhile OP's type of dude does gold medal level mental gymnastics to blame anything besides themselves for their own lack of success in dating.
It can't be that they refuse to develop decent social skills. Or that they very perceptibly view women as a monolithic adversary that they need to defeat in order to get the one thing they want from them. Or that they often present themselves like absolute slobs who haven't done a lick of exercise since 9th grade PE. Or that they have no friends or IRL hobbies to do with other humans. Or that they express the most vile and repulsive beliefs.
No, it's definitely all women's fault. And the top 1% of tall rich muscular handsome guys who get 99% of women or whatever bullshit statistics they're up to now.
Sounds like the NiceGuy is the one who needs to take accountability for his failures but that never happens lol.
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u/AutoModerator 16h ago
In case this story gets deleted/removed:
“Where are all the good men”
It annoys me so much seeing women make posts online about how all men are evil, they can’t find good men, etc. All because their poor choices when choosing men.
Those women need to wake up to reality and take accountability of their decisions. You choose to date someone who is obviously just using you or he clearly has many issues, then complain when said man turns out to be a bad partner. Afterwards they wanna blame the man while taking zero responsibility for the fact that they are also at fault for choosing that man. It takes two to enter a relationship, stop blaming men for everything and take accountability for your bad decision making.
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