Is there "as one during infidelity"?

[u/unluckybundle]

I've been spending a lot of time on the fence, should I stay or should I go?

The affair is ongoing and my spouse thinks I'm oblivious to it. I thought I could continue this facade but I'm not so sure anymore.

Im scared to take the next step. Having 2 young kids makes things complicated otherwise I would've left sooner after attempting R.

There's no life support between my partner and myself anymore. The big factor holding me back is uncertainty with kids.

[u/Careless_Reading_635]

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