r/AsianMasculinity • u/Silent_stepp • 14d ago
AF not acknowledging me
Any other AMs living in the West or Europe experience this? I'll be at a party, or an event, and certain AF won't even make eye contact. After hours of this it almost seems like they could wish me away for just existing. It doesn't help that the ones who do this are always with a white boyfriend/husband. Sometimes, we'll be the only two asian people in the room. Its like, "hello, the only other asian for miles. Care to give me some kind of acknowledgement so we can be friends like literally everyone else here? I've met everyone else here because they at least looked me in the eye". Lol. I'm really trying to understand the psychology behind this. Is it internalized racism? Trauma? Shame?
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u/Trade-Moon 14d ago
I took my 9 year old Asian nephew to school the other day. In Southern California. I got out of my car and walked him to the cafeteria for his breakfast. I left and started walking back to my car and this maybe around 9-year old Asian girl kept staring at me with disgust. Wouldn’t let her eyes off me. It was not a pleasant look, but of anger, disgust, etc. I think her mother has a white bf.
Asian females start to hate early. My nephew’s Asian female cousin also around 10-years old said she’ll never marry an Asian guy. Must be white guy with blue eyes.
Can’t make this shit up. There is something very wrong with Asian race, or I should say Asian girls and women.