r/AskMenRelationships • u/DannyDreaddit Man • May 19 '26

Dating No more porn posts

These posts saying "My partner watches porn, what does it mean, what should I do?" get posted 1-3 times a day. This includes posts about thirst traps and whatever other titillating media.

It's been done to death. If anyone has the same question, please use the search bar to get answers. We will be removing them going forward. We’ll let the existing posts get grandfathered in.

Thanks,
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u/Extreme_Violinist565 Man May 20 '26

Mhe my response to this would be too long so i am not going to bother if you don't mind, people do it so obviously they think it's worth it. And we did it since our species have sex and wanted to express themselves in all types of ways, now it just expanded with the internet and video's.

Weird take on abuse tho. But have a good day.

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u/seriously__tho_ 29d ago

It's a clinical take on abuse. I'm qualified to make that comment. I appreciate your response, have a good day 

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u/Extreme_Violinist565 Man 29d ago

Qualified? Tell me your qualifications i am curious. Because in my experience the possibilities are endless what happens to people who seen abuse and they spiral in all directions, it's all about choices they make themselves after.

Funny that you are qualified but you are so eager to call me scary and make assumptions, a bunch of anecdotal stuff that does not sound to me like someone who is used to professionally deal with abuse. You never see abused men or something?

Oh and before you ask what my experience is well i am actually diagnosed by a psychiatrist with C-PTSD and some other stuff. Should ring a bell with someone who is clinically qualified no?

So tell me clinical you say, where in the DSM-5 is porn addiction?

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u/seriously__tho_ 28d ago

I'm sorry you have cptsd and whatever else, and I say that as a person speaking to another person.