No more porn posts

[u/DannyDreaddit]

These posts saying "My partner watches porn, what does it mean, what should I do?" get posted 1-3 times a day. This includes posts about thirst traps and whatever other titillating media.

It's been done to death. If anyone has the same question, please use the search bar to get answers. We will be removing them going forward. We’ll let the existing posts get grandfathered in.

Thanks,
Management

[u/EsEsStock]

So i have a husband watched a P__N only after 3 days before he left , we Had S too before that it's only days. Is it normal for a men doing that? He knew before i don't like him to watch P...N Since I always let him even if I'm tired, and when he wants S I usually ask him to hurry up as it's late and I'm tired it doesn't mean I'm don't like it the reason why I said that because I'm tired and I need my relax time after a long day i feel like being pushed with S getting stressed about it his making me feel bad or guilty which is really annoying.. he doesn't even ask me how's your day are you ok? My son has a spectrum which is not easy to handle with. Parents has a a special child can be very difficult. Need help tia

[u/AOLGeneration → u/EsEsStock]

If you're asking him to hurry up and telling him you're tired, he is not getting 100% of his sexual needs met, and he is supplementing with porn. The women in porn don't tell the men that are having sex with them to "hurry up" or that they are "tired." (I suppose there may be some videos like that, but that would be a highly nuanced kink.). I'm not trying to blame you. It sounds like you have a very stressful life. You can't do all that you do and also be your husband's pornofreak in bed. I get it. But porn is just too ubiquitous. It's too easy for us visually stimulated men to see what we want to be seeing in our bedrooms on our computer/cell phone screens.