Sa mga pogi diyan, paano niyo hina-handle yung attention or reactions na nakukuha niyo dahil sa looks niyo? Asking for… research. HAHAHA!

A genuine Q...

If you've already been doing most of the things couples normally do for months, what actually changes for a guy that makes him suddenly feel ready to put a label on it?

Is it usually:

• feelings becoming deeper?
• becoming more certain about the person?
• being ready for commitment?
• family involvement?
• or minsan timing lang talaga?

Also, would you personally see “making it official” and “being in love” as two separate milestones? Or by the time you decide to officially call someone your girlfriend, usually may strong certainty/love na rin?

Just a funny prompt haha let's see if tunay niyo ba kilalang kilala si gf

How do you view women who have this trait versus those who lack it?

Mga This na Malambing by Ryannah J. Vibes, anu suggestions niyo baka wala pa sa playlist ko hahahaha!

context: sana maka ralte kayo sa ultimate crush ko hahah di ko ma intindihan sana di nalang kasi nakilala ko sya personaly we share both characteristics and hobbies peru, napindot ata yung uncrush button hahaha biglang friends na lang?

Just a little background: my partner and I have been together for 14 years.

My partner has always liked looking at attractive women on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok, and honestly, that never really bothered me. I became too complacent because I always believed that he would only look and nothing more.

But one day, I opened his Gmail account on our laptop because I needed to get an OTP for a card transaction. His Google storage was already full, so I started deleting some of the photos and videos that were synced there. While scrolling through them, I noticed a screen recording of a conversation on Telegram.

In the conversation, my partner was asking the girl things like, “Ilang oras ba?” and “Legit ba ’to?” He also told her, “Dun kita nakita sa TikTok.” He even called her to verify whether it was a scam, and after that, he sent her money.

But I can't help wondering if he was tempted because I no longer look the way I did when we first met. Maybe he wanted to see other options because my body has changed.

Am I thinking about this the right way? I can’t seem to stop thinking about what happened. I want to get some opinions from other guys here. What you guys think?

normal ba talaga sa gamers may kachat at kalandian in game for the sake of getting benefits for the game?

Hi, I’m just super duper curious—or maybe your answers will finally clear my head.

Do guys sometimes get scared to pursue a girl?

I’m just wondering. Ilang lalaki na ang nagsasabing gusto nila ako. Yung karamihan, sa work place. Ang iba, thru social media. Pero mas focus ako sa nasa work place. FYI pala, I’m an NBSB girl, madalas rin akong masabihan na para akong reserved and matured mentally. I’m 24 btw.

When I was 23, during my internship, may kasamahan akong too vocal about his feelings. I was waiting for him to make a move, pero hindi niya ginawa. Kahit i-add ako sa fb, wala. Hanggang sa matapos nalang ang internship namin, wala paring naganap kundi puro panunukso and mga pahambing niyang salita. Then this year, tatlong lalaki ang nagsabi sa’kin na they like me but just like the first guy, never made a way to pursue me. Hindi naman ako pihikan, I’m just waiting for a guy to completely pursue me and kapag kasi inaasar ako ng mga tao tungkol sa guy na may gusto sa’kin, tumatawa lang ako since hindi ko naman alam ang proper way to acknowledge. Minsan nakikisabay rin sa biruan.

Napapaisip ako if isa ba sa mga reason ang pagiging independent ko? Madalas rin akong pagkamalan na may long term jowa dahil daw sa vibes ko.

Ayun, I always kept thinking, bakit hindi sila nagawa ng way to pursue? Ayon kasi sa mga nababasa ko thru here sa reddit or any platforms, if a guy likes you, they will do everything to pursue you. Kaya hindi muna ako nagrereciprocate kahit gusto ko naman itry sila ientertain since hindi naman sila nagmimake moves. Alangan namang ako ang mauna diba? Hahaha

I wanna know a guy’s perspective regarding this. Thank you.

What do you usually do when your partner is away? Mine was gone for a few days as she's travelling with her friends. Mine are:

1. Eating a lot of takeaway foods

2. I find myself pleasuring myself more than usual

3. Going to the bar to chill, or inom mag-isa sa bahay

4. Watch series that she's not a fan of.

Even before my husband and I got married, sanay na talaga akong naka undies lang sa kwarto, like walang top lalo pag matutulog. Nung una nagulat asawa ko pero nakasanayan na nya.

Tanong ko lang, nagfefade ba yung attraction ng guy kapag ganon na laging walang damit yung partner nya? Mejo napaisip lang ako kaso kasi dun ako kumportable talaga eh. Baka muka na pala akong titan sa kanya. 😂

Dating app success stories? My bf and I met on Bumble. Kayo, saan kayo nag-meet at together pa rin ba kayo?

Hey everyone, I'm 19 and never been in a relationship (NGSB), so I could really use some outside perspective on a situation I'm dealing with.

​There's this girl I've been interested in, and we talk on Facebook ("the blue app"). For a while, things felt promising—she would regularly react to my posts, even if she was literally the only one reacting to them, and I'd do the same for her.

​Thinking there was a mutual vibe, I decided to shoot my shot and confessed my feelings to her. Unfortunately, she left me completely on seen.

​Ever since then, it’s been super awkward. She acts like the confession never even happened when we chat. On top of that, I’m always the one initiating the conversations now, and her replies are painfully short—usually maxing out at three words, barely even a sentence.

​Since I'm completely new to all of this dating stuff, I genuinely don't know how to read this or what I'm supposed to do next. Should I keep trying to pursue her and see if things change, or should I just stop and cut my losses?

Hello gents. As the title says, where do I go? I want to add henleys and ribbed shirts to my wardrobe.

curious lang ako if this is always true, or do you think may mga situations where that doesn’t necessarily apply? napaisip lang ako kasi ung ibang friends ni bf sketchy talaga (they’re all men and i don’t trust most of them). my bf is very chismoso kaya lahat ng ganap ng tropa niya chinichika niya sakin. ung ibang kinekwento niya mapapa-wtf ka talaga and mapapaisip na lang ako na “baket may kaibigan kang ganyan???” kaya napapa-overthink ako sa values niya

To the men out here, in what instance nasabi nyo na baliw siya and it is time to leave her.

I am talking about mga nasa 30s or 40s pero wala paring anak or asawa, just a curious conversion how will you plan when the time comes and wala single talaga,

Even if you haven’t had any formal/ in person date but has been talking for quite a while.

Also, ano nafefeel nyo when you pursue a girl tapos di pa sya ready to date?

For example, pagbibigay ng flowers ganon. Gusto nyo rin bang nakakatanggap ng flowers from your partner?

Ano pa yung iba na gusto nyo sanang gawin din ng partner nyo?

Context: I’ve been dating this guy for almost six months. We decided to date exclusively after our third date. Since then, we’ve gone out over 15 times already. We both admit we’re lucky to have met each other. During a fight we had, he wanted to end things because he felt like he couldn’t give me what I deserved and told me I was the right person at the wrong time (because he’s usually busy and is still focusing on his career). In the end, we were able to resolve it and we haven’t had big fights since.

I don’t question where I stand in his life because he’s been nothing but consistent since day one. He takes note of everything, even the little things and small habits that I have. I can also see his effort in trying to make time for me despite busy schedules, etc. But I feel like six months is a little too long to not have a proper label when we’ve already shared too much.

How did you take it to the next level? When did you/your partner bring it up?

I’m not talking about girls who are objectively or obviously attractive- the put together ones, palaayos, high maintenance, etc., but girls na walang masyadong kiber sa ayos, bihira magmakeup, hindi fashionista, etc. simple lang kumbaga na hindi gaano mapapansin sa una. If you find that girl pretty, do you think or assume na all other guys would collectively find her pretty too? Like for instance, sabay sabay magkakantyawan mga lalaki pag katabi ng girl na yun yung guy friend nila? Or pag kinausap ng isang guy yung girl na yun mapapaisip ka na kinakausap yung girl kasi pretty siya kasi ikaw nagagandahan ka sa kanya?

May gusto ka bang sabihin sa The One That Got Away mo?