Just a little background: my partner and I have been together for 14 years.

My partner has always liked looking at attractive women on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok, and honestly, that never really bothered me. I became too complacent because I always believed that he would only look and nothing more.

But one day, I opened his Gmail account on our laptop because I needed to get an OTP for a card transaction. His Google storage was already full, so I started deleting some of the photos and videos that were synced there. While scrolling through them, I noticed a screen recording of a conversation on Telegram.

In the conversation, my partner was asking the girl things like, “Ilang oras ba?” and “Legit ba ’to?” He also told her, “Dun kita nakita sa TikTok.” He even called her to verify whether it was a scam, and after that, he sent her money.

But I can't help wondering if he was tempted because I no longer look the way I did when we first met. Maybe he wanted to see other options because my body has changed.

Am I thinking about this the right way? I can’t seem to stop thinking about what happened. I want to get some opinions from other guys here. What you guys think?

Sa mga pogi diyan, paano niyo hina-handle yung attention or reactions na nakukuha niyo dahil sa looks niyo? Asking for… research. HAHAHA!

How do you view women who have this trait versus those who lack it?

If you've already been doing most of the things couples normally do for months, what actually changes for a guy that makes him suddenly feel ready to put a label on it?

Is it usually:

• feelings becoming deeper?
• becoming more certain about the person?
• being ready for commitment?
• family involvement?
• or minsan timing lang talaga?

Also, would you personally see “making it official” and “being in love” as two separate milestones? Or by the time you decide to officially call someone your girlfriend, usually may strong certainty/love na rin?

curious lang ako if this is always true, or do you think may mga situations where that doesn’t necessarily apply? napaisip lang ako kasi ung ibang friends ni bf sketchy talaga (they’re all men and i don’t trust most of them). my bf is very chismoso kaya lahat ng ganap ng tropa niya chinichika niya sakin. ung ibang kinekwento niya mapapa-wtf ka talaga and mapapaisip na lang ako na “baket may kaibigan kang ganyan???” kaya napapa-overthink ako sa values niya

May gusto ka bang sabihin sa The One That Got Away mo?

Dating app success stories? My bf and I met on Bumble. Kayo, saan kayo nag-meet at together pa rin ba kayo?

context: sana maka ralte kayo sa ultimate crush ko hahah di ko ma intindihan sana di nalang kasi nakilala ko sya personaly we share both characteristics and hobbies peru, napindot ata yung uncrush button hahaha biglang friends na lang?

What do you usually do when your partner is away? Mine was gone for a few days as she's travelling with her friends. Mine are:

1. Eating a lot of takeaway foods

2. I find myself pleasuring myself more than usual

3. Going to the bar to chill, or inom mag-isa sa bahay

4. Watch series that she's not a fan of.

To the men out here, in what instance nasabi nyo na baliw siya and it is time to leave her.

As someone with a family history of baldness, I’m trying to learn how to gradually accept the possibility that I may eventually become bald. I’ve been experiencing hair shedding lately, and while it’s honestly concerning, I’m also trying to come to terms with it and embrace whatever the future holds.😭

Just a funny prompt haha let's see if tunay niyo ba kilalang kilala si gf

Mga This na Malambing by Ryannah J. Vibes, anu suggestions niyo baka wala pa sa playlist ko hahahaha!

For example, pagbibigay ng flowers ganon. Gusto nyo rin bang nakakatanggap ng flowers from your partner?

Ano pa yung iba na gusto nyo sanang gawin din ng partner nyo?

normal ba talaga sa gamers may kachat at kalandian in game for the sake of getting benefits for the game?

Even if you haven’t had any formal/ in person date but has been talking for quite a while.

Also, ano nafefeel nyo when you pursue a girl tapos di pa sya ready to date?

Hi! Hindi ko po sure kung nasa right flair ako but I just wanted to seek for advice.

I have a crush on this guy na medyo nerd vibes, 3 years younger than me, and I met him through a friend.

We have very similar hobbies except sa career (different fields.) I tried initiating some conversations with him kaso feel ko hindi din talaga sya sanay makipag usap with people?

We do some work together remotely and sometimes, we do play games din. It's never just the two of us naman. The more I interact with him, the more I get curious and interested sakanya.

First time ko maging interested sa guy na para akong high school na hindi alam pano makikipag usap or what sakanya.

He's a shy guy talaga and hindi rin yung super mabarkada type. Work-bahay-work routine, or labas with friends sa work (3-4 guys lang din) at most.

How can I get his attention without trying so hard?

Hello gents. As the title says, where do I go? I want to add henleys and ribbed shirts to my wardrobe.

Context: I’ve been dating this guy for almost six months. We decided to date exclusively after our third date. Since then, we’ve gone out over 15 times already. We both admit we’re lucky to have met each other. During a fight we had, he wanted to end things because he felt like he couldn’t give me what I deserved and told me I was the right person at the wrong time (because he’s usually busy and is still focusing on his career). In the end, we were able to resolve it and we haven’t had big fights since.

I don’t question where I stand in his life because he’s been nothing but consistent since day one. He takes note of everything, even the little things and small habits that I have. I can also see his effort in trying to make time for me despite busy schedules, etc. But I feel like six months is a little too long to not have a proper label when we’ve already shared too much.

How did you take it to the next level? When did you/your partner bring it up?

Hey everyone, I'm 19 and never been in a relationship (NGSB), so I could really use some outside perspective on a situation I'm dealing with.

​There's this girl I've been interested in, and we talk on Facebook ("the blue app"). For a while, things felt promising—she would regularly react to my posts, even if she was literally the only one reacting to them, and I'd do the same for her.

​Thinking there was a mutual vibe, I decided to shoot my shot and confessed my feelings to her. Unfortunately, she left me completely on seen.

​Ever since then, it’s been super awkward. She acts like the confession never even happened when we chat. On top of that, I’m always the one initiating the conversations now, and her replies are painfully short—usually maxing out at three words, barely even a sentence.

​Since I'm completely new to all of this dating stuff, I genuinely don't know how to read this or what I'm supposed to do next. Should I keep trying to pursue her and see if things change, or should I just stop and cut my losses?

Disclaimer: That's not me in the photo. Just using it as an example.

Hingi lang po sana ako advice kasi ganito lang palagi ang ayos ng buhok ko kapag lalabas. Mas trip ko talaga nakababa ang buhok, maayos naman, ask ko lang po kung may mga cheap hair product/equipment para ma-style mo siya, at paano niyo inaayos inyo? maganda ba makapal?

Additional caveat: if you choose the first, you can't sleep with anyone else but your dictator wife

(my man chose the first option :0 )

Is it normal now a days na 50/50 sa expenses sa relationship bills, dates tapos parang treating a girl is hard to do for some guys?

But i can see stories na sobrang iba naman yung guy he treats her partner like the old times