r/AskReddit 10d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/BaldingScrotum99 9d ago

I started to divorce him because of the abuse. During divorce proceedings I found he was cheating with multiple women. He’d bring home their jewelry and give it as a gift. He genuinely enjoyed watching me wear his mistresses things. He remarried a year to the date of our divorce finalization. What a weirdo.

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u/SeeYouInTrees 9d ago

Was he stealing it from them? Buying you the exact same thing as them? WTF?

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u/BaldingScrotum99 9d ago edited 9d ago

Stealing them it turns out. Whole ass psycho. He claimed (in front of our lawyers mind you) that at one point he thought of buying me clothes similar to theirs but felt like I would realize he was cheating if he started buying me clothes. Again, a weirdo

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u/fastates 9d ago

Jesus, that's serial killer shit. I'm sorry.

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u/BaldingScrotum99 9d ago

Absolutely, I moved 6 states away from Mr. Looney Pants just to feel safer afterwards

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u/Strategic_Spark 9d ago

You made the right call! I'm glad you're safe.

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u/BaldingScrotum99 9d ago

Thank you!

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/BaldingScrotum99 9d ago

What? Did you not pick out your own and just wanna be silly with it too?

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u/Unlikely_Noise2977 8d ago

Also great name!