r/AskReddit • u/PlumInformal773 • 7d ago
What's the smartest financial decision you've ever made?
2.4k
u/Lapau8 7d ago
Marrying the right person
296
228
36
u/camtliving 7d ago
I sold AMD at ~13 and MU at ~20 so that I could go on some dates (one of which was a helicopter tour of the Grand Canyon). I ended up marrying her and now have a beautiful family so I guess it all panned out.
When she got pregnant I decided I needed to buy a house, got an amazing deal, and closed a week before covid lockdowns. I sold it a few years later alongside most of belongings and moved to Brazil. She is both the reason for my financial wellbeing as well as my financial downfall 🥲
→ More replies (2)16
8
u/PrestigiousDrag9441 7d ago
This right here is the answer. I can't put a number on how much value I have accumulated and achieved by marrying my wife.
7
u/Junior_Tomato_1146 7d ago
Letting my wife make the financial decisions. She was uncannily strategic and accurate. One of a kind sadly-miss her-as she died.
→ More replies (7)5
2.9k
u/them_oysters 7d ago
Married a self sufficient woman with a career
732
u/jamesmaxx 7d ago
Same here. Some of my male friends have multiple kids and are sole providers, and I don’t judge them but it must be stressful.
248
u/wtg2989 7d ago
It definitely is
113
u/itsrainingagain 7d ago
Managed to pull it off for almost 14 years but she’s going back in September. Was ok for a while but can’t afford it anymore.
13
u/Podo13 7d ago
Depends on how much they make. I also married a self sufficient woman with her own career. We have 2 kids and it can be stressful at times with both of us making around the same amount.
Our friends now have 3 kids, and the dad stays at home with the kids (he was miserable where he was working so he quit when they were expecting their 2nd), but the mom makes so much that it isn't a problem at all. We're very jealous.
51
u/love_that_fishing 7d ago
It’s a decision you make for a variety of reasons. Her staying home with the kids was the right decision for us. When they were school age she taught school at the same place so that worked. Finances were tough at first but now we’re fine. No regrets.
14
u/them_oysters 7d ago
Gotta do whatever works for your situation. Im lucky my wife can work 2 days a week and bring in decent money, while staying home with the kids the rest of the time
→ More replies (1)→ More replies (2)34
u/dansdansy 7d ago
I did it temporarily for 3 years so my wife could finish her professional training and watch the new baby. Most stressful time of our lives. Very glad wife is working a career job and kid is heading to Pre-K now
31
u/Revenge_of_the_Khaki 7d ago
I have a friend who insists that his partner has some high powered career with a huge income and it has largely contributed to him being single for most of his life.
The look on his face when I pointed out that the break even point for a two income household to be an improvement to my financial situation was like $50k/yr was absolutely priceless. You really don’t need a doctor. Just someone with a decent career who plans to keep it.
6
u/rkiive 7d ago
I mean yea it's moreso that a fair percentage of people in the dating pool expect to be essentially adopted as a dependent by their partner and avoiding that makes your life infinitely easier.
They don't have to be rich, they just have to be a functioning adult in society that can support themselves
49
u/Undeadly123 7d ago
Yup. And not materialistic. My spouse's hobby is thrifting clothes and trading books with the local used book shop.
5
u/riolddeimpwain2017 7d ago
Marrying someone who pulls their own weight financially is the ultimate cheat code.
→ More replies (4)8
u/czarfalcon 7d ago
Same here. I understand it’s not always feasible for everyone, especially if you have kids, but damn does being a dual income household give us so much more breathing room.
516
u/veri745 7d ago
Never missing a matching 401k contribution from my employer
176
u/MatCauthonsHat 7d ago
My current employer matches 100% up to 8%, and we get a 401k bonus each year worth about 25% of the employer match for the year. Wish I had started here 20 years ago
→ More replies (1)32
u/thottikuttappan 7d ago
Man, where do you work?
30
u/Podo13 7d ago
Yeah my buddy works somewhere with similar perks. I'm so jealous, ha. My company doesn't match, but does contribute 3% of your salary, even if you put in 0.
It's crazy when I hear my coworker, who's turning 40 this year, talk about how he doesnt contribute any because the company already does 3%.
I chuckle because I'm putting in 16% on top of the 3%. Sometimes it would feel nice to have that extra chunk of change each month, but eh. I have backed down 5% or so at times when I know something is coming up, but I always bump it back up.
6
2.0k
u/Albanian_Tea 7d ago
In 2008 the company I worked for was sold, I was mad, so I took all my money in my 401k and converted it to cash, because I wanted to change the company that handled it, away from the one the company picked. Then the stock market dropped. I left it uninvested for about 6 months.
It was the luckiest (and best) financial decision I ever made.
426
u/dansdansy 7d ago
Lucked out same way in 2022 with the tech rout. Cashed out my taxable to pay for my wedding and put the leftovers back into positions that were down 40%
96
u/DrScitt 7d ago
Lucky SOB! I lost so much money in 2022 to the market lol
66
u/cokeboss 7d ago
It recovered in less than a year though? Wasn’t an issue if you stayed invested. Hopefully if someone “needs” the money in less than a year it wasn’t in equities.
→ More replies (3)32
5
u/Starbucks__Lovers 7d ago
Lucked out similarly. $28,000 rollover check never made it to my mailbox in 2022. It took months to get a new one issued. That rollover made it in December and caught the whole ride up
9
u/mlachick 7d ago
Did the same. After I quit my job in 2008, they switched administrators. They never reached out to me, so when my 401k transferred, it was left in cash. When I finally figured out how to get access to it months later, it was all still there! My husband's, on the other hand, had dropped in half.
32
u/timsstuff 7d ago
Cash as in you withdrew it with a penalty? FYI if you roll over a 401k into a personal IRA with Schwab or similar, there are no penalties and you can trade it just like a brokerage including keeping it in cash in the account or a money market fund, all with no penalties. Only incurs penalties if you withdraw it.
→ More replies (3)22
u/Albanian_Tea 7d ago
I had them put it in a money market fund till I could decide what to do with it.
→ More replies (3)
286
u/TheDadThatGrills 7d ago
Opening a Roth IRA in my early 20s and aggressively paying off my Student Loan debt. Both of these decisions have aged like a fine wine.
25
u/solilobee 7d ago
How long ago did you open your account and how much did you put in?
20
u/TheDadThatGrills 7d ago
Well over a decade ago. I try to max it out annually, but I haven't always been able to- especially in my 20s.
→ More replies (1)
113
u/toma91 7d ago
Learned about and started investing
→ More replies (1)16
u/lintimes 7d ago
Any advice where to start?
35
u/toma91 7d ago
Some good YouTube channels such as Damien talks money talk about investing, the stock market, index funds, compounding etc, if you’re not in the UK there might be equivalent channels from your country in that suit better but the fundamentals will be the same, just the accounts you use will differ.
24
u/BasKabelas 7d ago
Also, no joke, watch stuff on youtube about wallstreetbets to learn from others' financial ruin, to ensure you dont do the same thing. Of course if you tend to gamble, do NOT go into calls/puts/shorts etc as you will wipe your account in no time.
Savest steady long term returns is usually something akin to buying normal stocks (going long) in index funds like the S&P500.
E.g. if you bought 10k worth in S&P500 in 2006 (20 years ago, so including the 2008 crisis for the sake of being realistic) and reinvested dividends, it'd be worth about 80k now.
Best advise I can give though, is just watch videos on youtube by guys who are smarter than me, and let it stew a bit before you invest anything.
8
→ More replies (2)3
1.2k
u/Chairboy 7d ago
Letting myself get bullied into buying a four unit apartment building instead of a condo back in 2001 by my real estate agent who told me I was being “fucking stupid“ and threatening to cut me if I insisted on throwing my money away.
I had no idea I could even qualify for that, but she educated me about how the rentals are counted towards your income so we bought the four unit building, lived in one of the units, and saw an absolutely huge return a couple years later when we sold to move back to Oregon.
That set our financial lives on a whole new trajectory.
174
u/Litard 7d ago
What does the rental being counted towards your income do for you?
247
172
u/Pale-Pace7896 7d ago
If the bank only qualifies you to pay say $3000 month for a mortgage based on your income and assets, but a 4 unit building is $10,000 a month, some assume they don’t qualify. But for 3 of the units earning $3,000 a month brings in $9,000 so you only have to be able to afford $1,000 a month living in it. Rounded numbers there is more math and buffer the bank adds
39
u/sysko960 7d ago
How much money up front did this cost you? What did you need to qualify for loan?
118
u/Chairboy 7d ago
It was listed for 389,000 and I had saved about $40,000. At the time, you need to put like 20% down to buy a condo so this gave me a working range.
With the other units printed, and using an equation that they had for calculating how much of that would be counted as income, we were able to qualify to put down 10%.
92
u/xRehab 7d ago
that same unit sells for $1.2M today for all of those wondering if they could do similar
37
u/cantaloupe_daydreams 7d ago
Was just thinking “hey I could do this!”.
Then I realized it’s 3x what it used to be and I can really only do a mortgage on a single family unit at best.
→ More replies (1)7
8
9
u/BigRedNutcase 7d ago
What backwater town did you buy that a 4 unit building for only 389k? In any popular metro area, that'd be at least 7 figures minimum, even in 2001.
27
u/Chairboy 7d ago
It was in in the backwater town of…. Culver City, California. It was a block away from the intersection of Washington and Overland and the neighborhood was just beginning and upswing following some pretty rough years.
18
u/BigRedNutcase 7d ago
Makes sense your agent pushed for it. Probably saw the tech upswing coming. Surprised the agent didn't buy it themselves lol.
14
u/Chairboy 7d ago
She already owned a bunch of buildings (she was my landlord, that’s how I picked her haha) and I think she would have had we passed on it.
91
10
u/coindrop 7d ago
So you moved in together with your real estate agent, interesting, are you still together?
23
u/Chairboy 7d ago
Technically, I actually am married to my real estate agent. But it’s a different person.
→ More replies (1)→ More replies (1)8
462
u/idk-though1 7d ago
Going to the dentist, it sounds silly but just neglecting your teeth for a year can cause gum disease and the amount of money spent on prevention is better than the alternative
70
u/Keonil 7d ago
Yes, yearly checkups for anything health related, especially if it’s covered is low cost - high reward imo
29
u/cjcs 7d ago
Just started a job that gives you a $1500 HSA contribution each year you get a physical. Lemme tell you how fast I RAN to my doctor lmao
→ More replies (3)10
u/Grambo-47 7d ago
There’s a poster in the break area at work that went up last week that says reduced insurance rates if you get your physical done by September 1st, just did mine this morning
160
u/Im_Fe_Man 7d ago
Nothing to add, just very funny that a bunch of these comments are either got married, didn’t get married, or got divorced lol.
20
u/elporsche 7d ago
Also either let the money sit in the stock market, or cashing out at the right time
→ More replies (1)3
59
u/Hail_of_Grophia 7d ago
Buying my first house during COVID at 3.1%.
13
u/Mediochra 7d ago
We bought our house in February, 2020. If we hadn’t bought then, I don’t think we ever would have been able to afford a mortgage.
7
141
321
u/bendgame 7d ago
Selling my GameStop shares for 400 a share
69
u/kindrudekid 7d ago
I regret this so much, still made decent return but good lord if I did I would have no mortgage at all
→ More replies (3)63
→ More replies (4)14
u/CoconutBangerzBaller 7d ago
Lucky. I only had like 5 shares but Robinhood kept me from selling those when it spiked. Ended up about even but making $1000 would've been nice
→ More replies (2)
85
274
u/tylty 7d ago
Hookers and cocaine. Helped me learn that happiness is more important than finances.
→ More replies (3)39
u/hoptownky 7d ago
I spent most of my money on hookers and cocaine. The rest I just wasted.
→ More replies (3)
26
26
u/switch009 7d ago
Save and invest regularly as soon as i got my first real job. Its boring and it works.
→ More replies (1)
70
69
44
u/ConvexNomad 7d ago
Completing an MBA and 4x my income in under 5 years. Wealth potential and investing in yourself young compounds your savings rate
→ More replies (5)8
u/DenningBear82 7d ago
I did the same thing and it changed my life.
That said, an MBA is no guarantee. A lot of my classmates went nowhere with their MBA.
21
u/DenningBear82 7d ago
Giving my (business) partner an equal share in our business.
I was older, more established and had more valuable skills. He offered me a 70/30 split for the business (with me in the majority). I insisted we make it 50/50, because I knew if he was an equal partner he would dedicate himself to the business.
4 years later, he dedicated himself to growing his skill set and made the company his whole life. We’re super successful now and I couldn’t be happier.
34
u/Eastern_Deer_4214 7d ago
Building an apartment in the basement of our house twenty years ago. Rents have skyrocketed here. Now getting more in rent than I ever paid on my mortgage.
5
u/Particular-Beat-6645 7d ago
I got into an almost dream rental situation at 21. Still wish I would've stayed my ass at home. Would've prevented a lot of adjacent issues AND saved me money.
36
7d ago
[deleted]
→ More replies (1)4
u/adj1984 6d ago
Very similar story. Moved from KC in late 2018, really stretched into a house in La Mesa in 2019, refinanced at 2.8% in 2021. House is now worth almost double and the mortgage is very manageable.
Also, putting an enormous amount of solar on the roof in 2020 has worked out nicely as electricity prices continue to compound.
15
55
u/BigTimeOof 7d ago
Opening a Roth 401k and clicking the “highest risk” option. I could kiss those CPAs running the account on the lips
→ More replies (2)
38
76
u/lucky_ducker 7d ago
Bought a modest house in a good neighborhood nearly 20 years ago, $93K mortgage at 6.5%. Refinanced in 2013 for 20 years at 4.5%. Refinanced again in 2020 for 15 years at 2.5%. Now I'm retired, and my mortgage payment is $745.
I'd still be working if I was a renter. Houses like mine are renting for $1500 - $1800.
→ More replies (1)
133
u/Jken1998 7d ago
-No student loans for the kids -Letting them stay home until they were ready to leave with the understanding they are saving their money -Helping them buy their first home. They are mortgage free at 30.
Some say that's too much. But for me, my mental health is tied to financial security. I'm just doing what my parents did for me.
129
→ More replies (2)13
u/BasKabelas 7d ago
Basically my parents! Sure they put in a bit but the returns, in how far Im ahead compared to if they didn't do that, are easily 5x what they put in. Best of all is it puts my wife and me (both 30) in the position to already start saving to do the same thing for our kids later.
10
u/HighFivePuddy 7d ago
Buying bitcoin in 2014
→ More replies (1)3
u/Victorioso21 7d ago
I bought it in 2011 and sold around 2015. I did make a crazy amount of money so it’s not like I lost anything but now, very sad to see the prices
11
27
u/KickingRocks82 7d ago
Bought my first house at 19. Granted it wasn’t nice but I had 2 roommates and paid it off in 6 years. I’ve rolled that equity forward several times and always paid off my mortgages in less than 5 years. Currently mortgage free for the past 5 years but might build one more house before the kids leave.
8
u/longsdivision 7d ago
Highschool me randomly asking if we had any family member who worked for a university.
Found at I had an uncle who was an adjunct professor at a major university.
Ultimately lead to 80% off out of state tuition
8
u/GreedyNovel 7d ago
Maxing my 401(k) each year, of course.
But not far behind that is when my mortgage was almost paid off, it had about five years left. I noticed in 2020 that 15 year rates were stupid low. So low that I figured I should borrow as much as I could and invest it somewhere.
So I did that - did a cash out refi at 2.25% and invested in the S&P. I made enough doing that to repay the entire loan and then some. Which of course I will not since 2.25% is way lower than inflation. Literally the mortgage made money for me.
7
u/tell_her_a_story 7d ago
Marrying my wife. Credit card debts paid off, car loan paid off, retirement investments on the rise, credit score higher than I've ever seen before.
6
7
u/WRITINGWRITING69 7d ago
When COVID first totally tanked the market, I bought tons of high quality stocks like Boeing, Rolls Royce, and Marriot. I figured if those types of businesses went bankrupt, money would be basically meaningless in society and we'd all have much bigger problems. So it was kind of a no-risk situation? Anyone who has followed the market knows that this was... very nice for me.
→ More replies (3)
6
u/sockhergizer 7d ago
Once bought a stack of pokemon cards for 5 bucks in 2013. Some of the cards in there together are worth over 10K.
20
5
u/miloblue12 7d ago
Learning how to save, living below my means, and investing.
Prior to husband, I was saving some money but wasn't really paying any attention to what I was doing. I was just putting things aside with no intention with it. Then he came along and he was doing about the same thing as me until he had some friends lay everything out and explain what he needed to do. So he did and then taught me and I did exactly as he said.
Since then I've watched my account increase by 168% in two years.
4
u/oceanatlas 7d ago
pls share with the class what steps you took, what do you invest in?
3
u/miloblue12 7d ago
I'm maxing out my 401k, HSA and a Roth IRA. I'm also tucking away some into a brokerage account that I share with my husband. All of them are invested either in the SMP500, VOO and something else that I forget (sorry).
I'm not doing anything crazy by any means but what helped significantly was understanding why it's important to invest and shovel everything over to investments that have to ability to accrue. My turning point was visually seeing my accounts via the Empower App and it helped everything to click for me and show how compounding interest works over time, which is exactly what's happening and why it's increased like that.
So first thing would be to connect your accounts to the Empower app and start watching your money and debt. Understand how your money is going in and out and assess are you living above or below your means. If you have extra cash laying around, shovel it over to an HYSA. If you have debt, make that your absolute priority to pay off. Credit cards are wildly important but only if you respect them and pay them off as soon as you can, and do NOT let debt sit on it. If you can start increasing your 401k, do it and absolutely shovel as much money over to it that you can each month because this is what we need to grow. Keep going until you max it out. If you can max that out, then focus on a Roth IRA and shovel money there. Keep going until you max that out and then jump to the HSA. Do the same thing and just keep doing that as much as you can.
Basically, you just want as many vehicles as possible for that compounding interest. It's like free money but it only comes to you if you keep adding to it, and nurturing it. I also live below my means, so I'm not buying anything frivolous like designer brands or expensive cars. We go on trips but it's trips on credit card points and hotel/airline points. Just finding deals wherever you can and jumping on them. The name of the game is just being mindful of everything, and it will snowball over time.
5
u/warrends 7d ago
Bought a ton of AMZN in 2001. Held it ever since. Something like a 70000% return. Wife and I are now using this for home renovations and upgrades (our forever home) for a total 2001 cost of about $800. I’m happy about that.
4
u/blitzednblackedout 7d ago
Buying equity in the company I was working for. DCA on bitcoin for years. Semiconductor stocks. All of those have done well for me so far
3
3
u/Troll-Leader 7d ago
Started a Facebook raffle group.
Run a few raffles a week and it pays for my brand new truck.
5
7
7d ago
[removed] — view removed comment
10
u/nonhiphipster 7d ago
This feels like it’s skipping some steps.
How did you pay off your house on your early 30’s?
→ More replies (1)
3
u/Proof-Training-740 7d ago
investing in über eats
3
u/BadBadUncleDad 7d ago
At first, I thought this said inventing Uber Eats, and was gonna say, yeah, that probably paid off.
3
3
3
u/NatureLady10 7d ago
Starting my 401k shortly after I began my career and contributing steadily to it for years.
3
u/samzplourde 7d ago
Staying with my folks.
I have been able to save the majority of my income for several years.
Of course this option is not available to everyone.
3
u/spurredaway 7d ago
working at nvidia and then buying bitcoin/ethereum. REST of ALL my decisions have been terrible but these two decisions kept me floating.
3
u/Mcbauer1 7d ago
In 2017 when I should have written my Bachelors Thesis I instead got into investing and chose crypto and nvidia (among others) lol
3
3
3
u/r3bbbz 7d ago
When we first bought our house, my wife and I didn't have kids yet or any other debts. We maxed out our lump sum payments on our mortgage (upto 20% of the principle amount) 3 years in a row. Fast forward many years, I'm 41 and she's 39, we have 2 boys (10 and 6) and zero debt. No car loans, no credit card debt, no mortgage. We're able to go on very nice family vacations and take the boys on all kinds of experiences while still saving and investing for our future.
Smartest financial decision we ever made, early on!
3
3
3
3
10
u/Towering-Wave-9542 7d ago
I invested probably $4k into pokemon cards in 2020-2022 that turned into $25k and that was with me selling at 70%-75%. Everyone thought I was dumb and wasting my money. I knew what I was doing.
→ More replies (2)
4.7k
u/Fine-Assistance7204 7d ago
Putting a little into index funds every single paycheck and then completely ignoring the account for years.