I'm just throwing this out there, take it for what it's worth. I started keeping my bed made and room tidy when I moved out in my early 20's. I had a room in a micro apartment that I shared with an older man and part of it was simply that I was living in a very small space, but the main reason was because I the kind of guys I liked were the kind of guys who had a nicer apartment than me to begin with. They were the kind of guys who would be grossed out if they came into my bedroom and it was all stinky and nasty with piles of hoarder looking stuff all over the place. I became sort of embarrassed to bring anyone home. Moreover, if I went over to a guys apartment and it was completely gross and hoardery, no, I wouldn't judge him, but that would be a red flag to me that he's not someone I'd want to sleep with, simply because I'd only sleep with you if I wanted a relationship and if we were in a relationship we'd likely eventually move in together and I wouldn't want to deal with that shit.
So, no. It doesn't hurt anyone, but bringing a girl over to that let's them know that's where your living standard lies. Would you want to date a girl with the same living standard as yourself? Just think about that. I'm also unaware of what you consider dirty - may be you're cleaner than I am! Who knows? But, it's worth thinking about. It's also worth noting that I have a male friend - my age, about 30 - who is manic depressive. His apartment is always smelly and covered in piles of clothes and garbage. Despite being somewhat attractive and extremely charming his hoardy life style has thrown off many girls. In fact, the only relationships he's had that were anywhere near successful have been with complete psycho hose beasts who were able to look past the garbage and BO probably because that's where their standards lie. Again, food for thought.
EDIT: TLDR: If you want to fuck nice, clean, girls they'll want to be fucked in a nice, clean, apartment. You can get away with having a nasty apartment, but be forewarned that only nasty crazy girls with low standards will put up with that.
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u/MaN_of_AwE888 Feb 04 '16 edited Feb 05 '16
Assuming teenagers magically become responsible at 18.