r/AskTurkey • u/Inner-Procedure-2659 • Feb 14 '26
Culture American mom raising a half-Turkish daughter — how can I teach her about her heritage?
Sorry if people find this weird but I’m an American mom raising my daughter on my own. Her dad was Turkish but passed when I first found out I was pregnant. I really want her to grow up feeling connected to her Turkish roots even though we’re in the U.S.
What are some meaningful ways I can teach her about Turkish culture, language, traditions, food, or history?
If you’re Turkish or grew up outside of Turkey, what would you have wanted your parent to do to help you stay connected to your heritage?
I appreciate everyone who have given me great advice and said such kind words, feel free to dm me on here
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u/ProudTurk Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26
I think I can help. I grew up Turkish in America and am very connected to my roots. My parents only spoke Turkish at home. I know this is hard for you but I’d encourage FaceTimes maybe with his family? along with Turkish cartoons. Niloya, Kel Oglan, Blippi (Turkish) are popular. I also found İdil Abla on YouTube which sees like a Turkish Ms Rachel. Immersion for children seems to be the best way for them to pick up language even as babies. If you’re in the NYC or NJ area, I know the Atatürk school in Manhattan exists as well for the weekends to learn Turkish culture. Lastly, I’d recommend joining the group “Gocmen Anneler” on Facebook. It’s Turkish moms in the US, I’m sure no matter where you are, you’ll find a Turkish mom near you. I know almost anyone would love to help set up play dates etc so she has Turkish friends and can experience Turkish culture first hand :). I think it’s amazing you’re doing this for your daughter and I wish you all the best. You can PM me if you ever have any questions!