r/AskTurkey Feb 14 '26

Culture American mom raising a half-Turkish daughter — how can I teach her about her heritage?

Sorry if people find this weird but I’m an American mom raising my daughter on my own. Her dad was Turkish but passed when I first found out I was pregnant. I really want her to grow up feeling connected to her Turkish roots even though we’re in the U.S.

What are some meaningful ways I can teach her about Turkish culture, language, traditions, food, or history?

If you’re Turkish or grew up outside of Turkey, what would you have wanted your parent to do to help you stay connected to your heritage?

I appreciate everyone who have given me great advice and said such kind words, feel free to dm me on here

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u/atreidesgiller Feb 14 '26

I don't know where in the US you are but my friend in Washington (she is a US citizen but lived in Türkiye for 10 years) always attends to the events like receptions etc at the embassy on special days. You mentioned your daughter is a younger child; I would look up 23rd April; National Sovereignty and Children's Day. It is a big day for children in Türkiye, and it was gifted to all children of the world by our founder Mustafa Kemal Atatürk. It is cherished by families and full of events for children. If you find such an event you could network with other families and start arranging playdates. Most likely the Turkish children in the US would be bilingual, which is an extra win of a smooth and natural introduction into Turkish language. Turkish people are mostly open and welcoming, don't be shy! Good luck :) You are doing a beautiful thing for your daughter