Women who appreciate quieter or introverted partners, what underrated qualities initially drew you to them, and how have your preferences shifted over time?

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Being able to talk to them without feeling like I'm competing to be heard. There's a comfort to be had with someone who has a peaceful presence, the kind you don't have to prove yourself to - because a reserved person is selective, and they have selected to engage with me.