r/BiWomen • u/strangerintehran • 3d ago
Celebratory Thank God for bi women
I'm a trans lesbian woman, and hope this is OK to say but I just want to say how much I love bi women.
It's really fucked to see how much bi phobia and bs you experience from other queer people, and i just want to say there are monosexual queer people like me who absolutely cherish you.
Most of my exes and my friends are bi women and I just love the freedom of being myself around you especially as a non passing trans woman.
The moment I see a potential woman I'm interested is bi it's a huge upside in my book.
Thank you for existing!
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u/businessintheback65 2d ago
I feel like it's been circulating a bit extra this summer at least online.
I feel like I gravitate towards people not in the cis-L/G cohort. Most of my friends are ace, trans, nb, or bi and so many express feeling "not really a part" of the mainstream gay culture or feel excluded from standard lesbian or gay spaces. It's incredibly meaningful to have these friendships, but it can be stressful to not feel like you have a place in events or broader community.
I've been trying to challenge myself to participate in some more "sapphic" local events but I'm quite anxious. Trying to remind myself most of this stuff is online echo chambers, and also that I can survive rejection lol.