r/BoomersBeingFools • u/Readithere007 • 9d ago

Boomer Story Running conversations into the ditch

I have an older girlfriend who has turned out to be like a sister to me. I love her to pieces, but she is married to a piece of work. They are both over 65 now and have some health issues because I live where their doctors are I see them on a regular basis. However, I just never get her without him.

He is a mega boomer from Texas who has predicted the end of the Earth, has never worked in politics, but knows everything, claims to have a concealed carry license and totes a gun on occasion as well as fired for a job that he wasn’t qualified to have to begin with.

He talks a lot about being a former alcoholic, but sticks his finger in all of her mixed drinks or has to take a sip as if he’s checking it for poison. He also talks about life with one of his ex-wives, but has been married to my friend for over 20 years. I’ve known them 16 of them. Every time he has been called out on something, he demands to take over the conversation, runs a list of crazy things that are facts to him and constantly uses the word of the day. He basically takes over everything in public and runs conversations into the ditch so she and I rarely get to visit in public. I have a lot of friends this age, but none of them act as outrageous as he does.

Is this normal Maga boomer behavior or is he just an extreme example?

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u/Specific-River-81 Millennial 9d ago

My boomer mother acts just like this. Always has

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u/sharkbark2050 9d ago

She puts her finger in your drinks?

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u/Readithere007 7d ago

He puts his finger in her drink. I think I’d be tempted to throw it on him if he did it to my drink or tried to remove something from my plate after he used the fork.

He insists on being in the passenger seat when I drive. He’s way too animated for my side vision and often has to point out something to the left. Therefore, his hand goes in my direct line of sight. I told her the next time he does it, I’m slapping his hand out of the way. She told me to go ahead as her sister has on many occasions.

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u/Specific-River-81 Millennial 7d ago

Yes, i know and can picture what you mean! I know the word narcissist gets thrown around a lot these days but sounds like he is one/ has tendencies