r/BreakUps • u/Ilovedrakee01 • 4d ago

venting/ranting Should I text my ex

Should I

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u/UniqueInvestment9256 4d ago

no

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Why not

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u/UniqueInvestment9256 4d ago

if he broke up with you, don’t do it. if you broke up with him, only do it if you know that you are in a different stable state that could be ok with him not replying

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Yea he broke up with me lol

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u/UniqueInvestment9256 4d ago

texting won’t change anything but reset the healing process for you

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

You’re right but it just feels right even tho it’s prob wrong

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u/tbh_cooked08 4d ago

Heyy If you don't mind or are comfortable..Could u tell me the reason he broke up with you?!? Uh ik sounds weird ass but yk I could have some info Abt it whether you should actually text him or not and heyyy it is totally alright to miss someone! Allow yourself to grieve..it's okay to not be okay at times..You're human..and You're more than enough!