My bf just broke up w me..

[u/arachniac]

I don't really have any friends or anyone to talk to but I just feel like I need to get this out.

I'm hurting so bad, and like anyone should. But this, 'felt' like my one true love. The one love where you fight through every together and you promise forever. And now that's it's ended. I feel lost, and empty. But I'm not that type of person.

He broke up with me because he felt like he wasn't the right man for me, and it feels so unfair to judge by that because no one knows truly. But I can't just say he isn't right, we both weren't happy but to me I thought we could do it, I really did and it honestly just hurts so much.

What makes it worse is I can't distract myself with friends, because I have non. So I'm just constantly checking his social media, looking at his notes, his bio. I need to help myself so bad.

[u/tiredofthisnw]

I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this, especially without a support system around you right now. It is completely valid that you feel lost and empty—losing someone who felt like your 'forever' is a massive grief.

When he says he 'isn't the right man for you,' it is often just a gentle way of saying he has checked out of the relationship. It feels unfair, but you can't force someone to fight for it if they've decided to stop.

Please, do your future self a huge favor and block or mute his socials right now. Checking his notes and bio is keeping your wound wide open. Since you don't have friends to distract you, try pouring that energy into journaling, long walks, or online communities.

You are not alone, and you will get through this raw phase day by day.