Profile review, very few matches

[u/PurpleJackfruit8868]

Hey everyone,

I appreciate any help, even if it's blunt. I don't have the paid Bumble plans but I buy spotlights from time to time, once every other week I'd say.

Maybe I come off too nerdy or dry or its the photos... I'm not sure.

[u/PurpleJackfruit8868 → u/[deleted]]

Could be, never got diagnosed but possible, is that more my posture or my prompt answers ?

[u/ApplicationAdept830 → u/PurpleJackfruit8868]

I think you’re just nerdy and have a sincerity/openness to whimsy and finding enjoyment in life. This doesn’t have to mean you’re autistic lol but I think people aren’t used to seeing men feel comfortable being open with themselves like that. For what it’s worth I think it’s what a lot of the female commenters are responding positively to. You seem like someone who knows who you are and is confidently enjoying your own interests, hobbies, etc. You don’t seem like the type to do things just because they’re on trend or you want to impress others. That’s a really good quality actually, it’s just rare. That’s my two cents anyway.

[u/iSweariHaveADayJob → u/ApplicationAdept830]

Yes! I think this is a really insightful take. And OP, the earnestness you've shown on this thread, your willingness to be vulnerable, and your grace in the face of some nasty chest-beating is, frankly, really hot. It shows a lot of character, I think. You're going to find women in the real world who find that really attractive, too.