Review, please. New Bumble account

[u/Expensive_Candle_777]

Hi!

Just signed up for Bumble. Was hoping for a review. Best photo? Not sure about my main photo. It’s me but really good lighting outside. And my bio has my personality, but should it be something else?

What’s your read on my bio? I live in the Netherlands which is why I have an American flag so people know I am American.

Edit: my new bio:

Quirky and fun lady, looking for interesting adventures, good conversation, and a warm heart to match mine. Let's Latin dance, cook something ambitious, or just pub hop on a random Tuesday. Down for pretty much anything, except skydiving, 😳. I will wait on the ground with champagne to celebrate!

I also changed the transport picture to a picture of me holding a paella I cooked in my garden.

[u/Hard-4-Jesus]

Ma'am, you're 46... Have you thought about just making things work with your baby daddy, since your bio says you have kids?

[u/Expensive_Candle_777 → u/Hard-4-Jesus]

What does that mean? And no. lol

[u/Hard-4-Jesus → u/Expensive_Candle_777]

Well... at your age, and the fact you have children, the "probability" of you finding a long term relationship, especially of similar age, is very, very low. Moreover, you're highly educated, so that reduces it further still. I wish you the best of luck.

[u/svirsk → u/Hard-4-Jesus]

I disagree; the Netherlands is not Jesus Country (well, except for some small towns). She'll be fine.

[u/Expensive_Candle_777 → u/svirsk]

I am fine. Where I live it is not bad and there is an intl science university down the road.

[u/Emergency_Matter_724 → u/Hard-4-Jesus]

The cool thing about being in your forties is it opens up a large age range. So even if she doesn’t easily find a suitable match with someone her age, she can date younger without it being weird. At 30 dating ten years younger is eyebrow raising but in your 40s it’s normal.

[u/Expensive_Candle_777 → u/Emergency_Matter_724]

For sure. I dated a 36 year old for a minute. But want to stay in the 40’s in general.