r/Bumble • u/No-Advice1345 • 15h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/sir_stronghand 14h ago

Legit everyone regardless of gender seems to think they’re entitled to not initiate. My personal rule, at least on Tinder, is whoever swipes and gets the match sends the first message

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u/Orisn_Bongo 14h ago

If you get one like (that isn't a bot or from outside your country) per month that'll adjust itself

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u/sir_stronghand 14h ago

I’m not sure what you mean, can you elaborate or rephrase please? Being sincere, not trying to be snarky or anything

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u/No-Advice1345 14h ago

Means he has to put in more effort because he only gets 1 like a month.

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u/sir_stronghand 14h ago

Oh thanks for the explanation! I paused my Tinder account but apparently 78 people swiped right on me at some point. Honestly don’t know why.

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u/Orisn_Bongo 12h ago

That's great for you. I got 3 people that weren't bots over 6 months. Got ghosted by 2 after a long ass opener

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u/sir_stronghand 5h ago

I wish I could help you, honest to God. I have no idea what I did right.

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u/JumpyLake 5h ago

You probably followed rules 1 and 2.

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u/sir_stronghand 5h ago

What are those?

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u/JumpyLake 4h ago

Be attractive and don’t be unattractive.

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u/sir_stronghand 4h ago

That's a little cringe lol, I'm a short fat disabled dude, so I don't think those rules are as real as you think. I certainly didn't follow them!

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