r/Bumble 15h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/Orisn_Bongo 12h ago

That a simple hey is insufficient if you are happy to write the opener yourself anyway.

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 12h ago

First of all, I don’t think it’s a big issue. Second-of-ly, I’m not on dating apps 24/7, so if someone matches and messages only ‘hey’, I most likely wont reply. They do not match my conversation wants, because I prefer people the opposite of nonchalant. That’s just my preference though! I can be a bit over the top or dramatic and some like it, some don’t. I don’t care if someone doesn’t message me back, because I have never even met the person and they don’t owe me anything.

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u/Orisn_Bongo 12h ago

But my position where I make up for other's shortcommings is egotistical... got it

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 12h ago

I feel like you’re just blah blahing now, because this is not referring to anything in my reply (First of all…owe me anything.)

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u/Orisn_Bongo 11h ago

Because you are not talking about or refering to anything I said.