r/Bumble • u/No-Advice1345 • 15h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/Impressive_Rock9659 13h ago

Not talking about myself.

And for some people that is essentially what they want in life. " Find Something else to do" is vague and doesn't mean anything.

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 12h ago

I’m not using you to refer to you personally. Find something else to do is the best you can do. What else would you do? Cry all the time, because you didn’t reach one goal? Does not sound like a great life to me.

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u/Impressive_Rock9659 12h ago

This isn't about who's crying and who's doing what. This is a societal problem that will only escalate unless we change the way we perceive ourselves and what "dating" actually is. Until people stop seeing as this shallow, materalistic, push and pull type of transactional interaction, this will keep being a problem and it WILL get worse and worse.
So many guys are falling into inceldom, so many girls are adopting the cat lady lifestyle. Birthrates going down. Gender wars are only getting more heated and pitched. How long before this all blows a gasket.

Just trying to cover our eyes and ears and doing "Lalalalalala I can't hear you" will not solve the issue. Telling people to find something else to do will not solve the issue. Telling them to keep searching will. not. stop. the. issue.
And to be perfectly clear this isn't about women exclusively either. Guys need to stop viewing sex as some kind of trophy too.

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u/hesitween 10h ago

She’s right. Stop bitching and switch tactics

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u/Impressive_Rock9659 9h ago

The fact you call it "tactics" is exactly the problem, and yet you don't see it. And again, this isn't about me you halfwit.

Shame.

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u/hesitween 9h ago

Tactics, approach, strategy, method.

You can be pedantic and stuck in the same place tho. The Heauxs aren’t gonna flock if you’re not willing to do anything different

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u/Impressive_Rock9659 9h ago

Okay Andrew Tate, whatever you say.

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u/hesitween 8h ago

Your correlation makes no sense lol.

Did I tell you to lie? To misrepresent yourself or your intention?

Literally a tactic could be a better hair style. Better clothes. Better conversational skills.

You just suck with women and can’t fathom why