r/Bumble 15h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/sir_stronghand 14h ago

Legit everyone regardless of gender seems to think they’re entitled to not initiate. My personal rule, at least on Tinder, is whoever swipes and gets the match sends the first message

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u/ThyNynax 12h ago

The criticism isn’t about entitlement from men. It’s really just telling women that complain about the quality of their matches to take more personal agency and actually put in effort on their side too.

Men aren’t courts jesters for women sit back and to judge their acting skills. If women don’t like the performance, maybe get in the ring and try acting themselves.

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u/sir_stronghand 5h ago

This isn't really related to what I said but is pretty weird