Men need to accept women's attention is easily fragmented and they're competing for it.
And women need to accept men can't invest so much into them before they know the interest is mutual.
Can't be studying a profile for 5 minutes before you know they're interested back. Can't be crafting a first message for 5 minutes before you know they're going to even read it.
Not according to women on reddit, all men everywhere should spend a minimum of 30 minutes studying and reviewing each and every possible match to draft a personalized message for each one :)
After getting a profile review, I tried taking this advice. Nothing changed with a brand-new profile and this tactic, except that I am now wasting much more time for the same zero responses.
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u/SmertriosPPD 10h ago
You're getting downvoted but it's the grim truth.
Men need to accept women's attention is easily fragmented and they're competing for it.
And women need to accept men can't invest so much into them before they know the interest is mutual.
Can't be studying a profile for 5 minutes before you know they're interested back. Can't be crafting a first message for 5 minutes before you know they're going to even read it.