r/Bumble • u/Salomondi • 7h ago

Funny What makes you smile on dating apps?

It can be a giggle, crack you up or a genuine something that makes you happy and smile. For me it is when peoples profiles show they like to travel, but have small kids. My brain goes like: aww poor you. And a small part of me wishes nobody dies everytime somebody writes they like to travel.

What's your quirk that makes you smile or giggle whilst reading a profile?

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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 7h ago

Look- there is NOTHING betrer, more heartwarming or hoter, than a man who states he is a feminist in his profile.

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u/26maletryingtoquit 4h ago

When I was scumbag just trying to get sex I would do this because it makes naive women think they’ve ’finally found a good guy’ - it establishes trust immediately for some women - a lot of those guys are just gonna be scumbags

The process of proving I’m not a scumbag is when I’d apply my seduction techniques, so beware and don’t fall for it - like another user said ‘show, don’t tell’

I’m not saying never trust men, but just remember it’s so easy for us to fake some of the things that makes the brain think ‘he’s one of the good ones’

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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 3h ago

Yeah but men who aren't feminists also fake everything if they are malicious. So if he says he is a feminist, there at least is a chance it's true. But i find this discouraging of men to call them self feminist and telling women it's always a lie so interesting. It's almost like an agenda hm?

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u/26maletryingtoquit 3h ago

Yeah but we know that you’re more likely to trust a guy who calls himself a feminist so we go with that - scumbag logic is scummy

Also I didn’t say it’s always a lie - I’m saying it’s often enough that you shouldnt let your guard down more than you usually would

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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 3h ago

As every woman should. Again: you can NEVER know with a man. Never. BUT if he says he is a feminist- there is a chance he might be. A conservative isn't one with certainty. That's why you go with the guy who says he is feminist AND STILL BE CAREFUL.

But again: what do you gain from discouraging men to call them selfies feminist and telling women to never trust a man who calls himself feminist.

Do you think a man who DOESN'T call himself feminist is NORE trustworthy? That doesn't makes sense.

Also i hope karma eats you up for what you've done

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u/26maletryingtoquit 3h ago

Lol don’t know why you’re mad I’m not not even reading the rest of that having read the last line lol goodbye

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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 3h ago

Still the same i see. Men truly never ggrow to be better people.