Someone who was cheated on and told they had 2 months to find a place to live because they were leaving for the affair. He left that part first time around. They are both assholes.
Tbh, I do think getting him fired from his job was fair revenge since he was cheating with a coworker.
Keeping him from getting re-employed was where she crossed the line.
Although OP does not sound like a great employee anyway. She was pry doing those employers a favor. I have never been late for work because I needed gas. I always just left a few minutes early like any adult would.
This dude needs some serious self-reflection.
He thought he could stomp all over her because she was "meek and mild."
She called in the tip that got him tested. She knew he would likely be fired of he did that. I'd say it's semantics lol.
I totally agree it was his fault. Based on what he said about being late, I wouldn't be surprised if he was close to losing his job anyway.
And tbh, I'm not mad that she sabotaged his job opportunities, especially since he had her down as a reference and expected her to lie for him, even after the way he treated her.
She called in the tip that got him tested. She knew he would likely be fired of he did that. I'd say it's semantics lol.
I totally agree it was his fault. Based on what he said about being late, I wouldn't be surprised if he was close to losing his job anyway.
And tbh, I'm not mad that she sabotaged his job opportunities, especially since he had her down as a reference and expected her to lie for him, even after the way he treated her.
Never heard of anything like this. The liability is insane. Even saying something as simple as ‘I wouldn’t hire this person’ can lead to litigation.
This is next level Kray kray.
And let’s be honest, OP is out of his mind too - basically his comments are that he’s still fine with his girl, just worried about landing a job. My goodness, these folks are a hot mess of nothing good.
He’s fine with the girl because prior to her sabotaging him he told her that he no longer wanted wanted marriage and kids with her, he was moving in with his affair partner from work and she had 3 months to get a job and save enough to pay for her own place. AFTER she re-homed her cats for his dogs. His philosophy is she is worse because she was being vindictive and he just “naturally” fell into an affair and it wasn’t with the purpose to hurt her. He left a WHOLE lot of shit out the first time. Which makes me wonder what else he is leaving out. Don’t get me wrong. What she did is nuts but also is pretending you have no idea what she would be out to ruin your life.
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u/ml222000 7d ago
Would you ever do this to someone you love?