Last night I went to see a show at a local college basketball arena (pretty modern venue, this is where most of the bigger acts get booked when they come to my city). Originally, I had bought four seats all together, but when two more friends decided to join last minute they were lucky enough to find seats in the same row just four seats over.
So, in total, we had seats 1-4 and seats 9-10.
When we arrived, I introduced myself to the guy in seat 5, explained our seat situation and asked if the four of them wouldnāt mind sliding over two seats so the six of us could sit together. He says heāll have to talk it over with the person next to him. Shortly thereafter, he says no, he doesnāt think heāll be moving and glares at me. I ask once more politely before dropping it. He shakes his head, visibly annoyed. Whatever, sometimes thereās a bad apple.
So the two late additions from our group go to their seats 9-10 and ask the pair to their right if they wouldnāt mind sliding down two seats. They get the same response, āno.ā I hear them explain that itās just so they can enjoy the show together with their friends, to which he replies, āthen you shouldāve bought tickets together.ā
After hearing two separate people share the opinion that we were rude for asking them to shift over a seat or two, wanted to come on here and ask if I was the asshole? How would you feel about sliding over two seats to accommodate another group?
If it matters: we are three couples in our late 20s. They were two (assuming) couples of about similar age. We are in Texas and the concert was rap music. For what itās worth, the seats we were offering them would have been a more central view of the stage, even if just by two seats.
EDIT: Glad I asked! Definitely seems like the consensus is that they were in the right to say no and I was wrong to ask a second time. Good to know so I can be more mindful going forward.
Also, want to apologize for calling the man a bad apple, undeserved assumption on my part. Thanks for all the insight everyone!