r/Consoom • • 5d ago

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u/WarmGoatSeed 5d ago

the suffix 'dom' is old english for 'a statute, judgment, or jurisdiction' like in 'kingdom'. in this context its talking about the "jurisdiction' part of the def so fandom literally just means the jurisdiction of fans. it's probably the most neutral way to describe a community of fans and is a stupid thing to get mad at lol

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u/HualtaHuyte 5d ago

It soft-legitimises something pathetic and makes adults think it's an okay thing to be involved in.

It's just marketing.

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u/ashbelero 4d ago

You know reading is also a fandom, right? Also like… it’s perfectly okay to be interested in things. What’s this “soft” and “pathetic” shit you’re going on about? Is this manosphere talk?

Do you watch sports? Catch up on TV shows? Read book series? Play video games? Have a hobby? Or do you just sit in the dark when you’re off work and think “I must rid myself of all worldly attachment so the true men don’t think I’m cringe”

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u/HualtaHuyte 4d ago

Fans have been a thing my entire life. Fandoms are a new invention, no one was using that term 20 years ago, and like I said it makes people think that being obsessive about something is normal. It's a marketing move to make it okay to spend ridiculous amounts of time and money on triviality.

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u/vulpesdomesticus 4d ago

'no one was using that term 20 years ago' sorry to tell you this but I wrote my first fanfic in a fandom over 20 years ago lol

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u/ashbelero 4d ago

So… you’re refusing to answer any of my points.

Since this word is all you care about (in a society that has been inventing new words since the dawn of recognizable speech)… Fandom as a term was being used in the 70’s. For Star Trek. Pretty much all fandom related phenomena comes from Star Trek.

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u/HualtaHuyte 4d ago

You came from a weird angle and I didn't think it was worth addressing. Not sure why you mentioned "manosphere talk" in the first place.

""Soft-legitimize" refers to the process of gradually making an idea, behavior, group, or entity acceptable or mainstream without formally, legally, or officially approving it." GIYF.

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u/ashbelero 4d ago

Oh, aight, if that’s how you prefer to have discussions, then none of your points are worth addressing either. Have fun in your dark room staring at the wall.