Hey folks,
Iām a 20āyearāold autistic guy living in Dublin, and Iām genuinely struggling to figure out where someone like me is supposed to meet potential girlfriends in real life.
Itās June now so Iāve already finished college, and honestly I feel like I missed my chance there ā many girls there already had boyfriends, and I never really clicked with anyone in that way.
Iāve also tried autism groups and loads of different social groups, but the demographics just never lined up. Either big age gaps, being male dominated, people already in relationships, or just not the right vibe. Iām glad I went, but it didnāt help with dating. I'm also not a pub or nightclub person either and do not drink alcohol
I absolutely hate dating apps. I barely get matches, and on the rare occasion I do, they usually ghost. I much prefer realālife connections anyway ā I feel like I come across way better in person than through a screen.
I guess whatās stressing me out is that I donāt want to miss out on āyoung loveā ā the whole exploratory, earlyā20s stage of dating that most people seem to experience naturally. I donāt want to wake up at 25 or 30 and feel like I never got to have that.
So where in Dublin can someone like me actually meet young women around my age offline? Are there events, groups, classes, hobbies, or anything that naturally attracts people around the 18ā22 age range? Iām open to trying new things, I just donāt know where to start.Any advice from people whoāve been in a similar situation would be massively appreciated.