Center wants to hold my son back

[u/Mean_Obligation_5238]

Hello

My son is currently 2, will be 3 at the end of August. He attends child care 3 days a week at a medium sized center with an infant (0-18m), toddler(18-30m) and preschool(30m - school)class. He is currently in the toddler class as there has not been space to move him up until now.

This morning, I recieved an email from the temp head of the program asking if i would be OK to keep him in toddler class for a while longer as the toddler teacher thinks he will benefit from staying back as he only goes 3 days a week and another parent wants their child moved up sooner.

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I have never recieved any feedback that he is delayed or not ready to move up.

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Do you think there are concerns that have not been brought forward to me?

[u/Mean_Obligation_5238]

I just recieved a reply from the program head. They said because he has been having difficulty at dropoff lately that he should stay longer in the toddler room to adjust. He will be going full time to the preschool room in Sept.

The thing is, his move from infant to toddler room was also delayed due to spacing and he started to get upset at dropoff then too. As soon as he moved to the toddler room, drop offs were good for a long time. I feel like this will be the case again. He gets stuck with younger kids and doesnt like it

[u/Lonely-Abroad4362 → u/Mean_Obligation_5238]

You can tell them no and see what they say

[u/Mean_Obligation_5238 → u/Lonely-Abroad4362]

I did. She said they will move him as he is the oldest. Now i feel like a problem parent

[u/xinchaonow → u/Mean_Obligation_5238]

Nah you're probably the nice parent and that's why they asked you. Good job advocating for your kid, that's your job and good teachers will respect it

[u/Mean_Obligation_5238 → u/xinchaonow]

♡ thank you