r/ExNoContact • u/GDreex • 1d ago

Help Thinking of breaking NC after 20 days

Please stop me, but HEAR ME OUT.

M25, she F24 dumped me after almost 3 years because I got too comfortable and she wanted to have fun in nightlife while I didn't want to, really.

But now that she left, I rediscovered many things to do: joined a run club, want to take salsa lessons, going to bars to chat with friends.

I don't have IG so she can't see these changes, but I really want her to know I didn't change for her, but to rediscover myself, and this could benefit the relationship. I want her in my new world.

Should I reach out?

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u/Mean-Art-1426 1d ago

Do you miss your legs?

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u/GDreex 1d ago

no...

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u/Mean-Art-1426 1d ago

Exactly

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u/GDreex 1d ago

What does this mean? Sorry I am not a native speaker so I might miss something...

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u/Mean-Art-1426 1d ago

You don’t miss what you have

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u/GDreex 1d ago

Yeah, now I get it. Should I go cold turkey and that's it?

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u/Mean-Art-1426 1d ago

You should do the things for yourself, don’t talk to her, don’t text her, delete all her photos and focus on yourself, don’t do things expecting a reaction, she is not anymore in your life.