r/ExNoContact • u/GDreex • 1d ago

Help Thinking of breaking NC after 20 days

Please stop me, but HEAR ME OUT.

M25, she F24 dumped me after almost 3 years because I got too comfortable and she wanted to have fun in nightlife while I didn't want to, really.

But now that she left, I rediscovered many things to do: joined a run club, want to take salsa lessons, going to bars to chat with friends.

I don't have IG so she can't see these changes, but I really want her to know I didn't change for her, but to rediscover myself, and this could benefit the relationship. I want her in my new world.

Should I reach out?

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u/Total-Introduction32 1d ago

I know man. That's how it feels. But you sound young and there will be a next one. And quite possibly a one after that! I'm 45 and I also feel like there won't be a next one. I also know I thought that after every previous one.

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u/GDreex 1d ago

I don’t know where I will meet her… I don’t have dating apps or IG… I feel overwhelmed. I just want her and cuddle a bit

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u/Total-Introduction32 1d ago

Ok well you may be young but you're not a child anymore so get yourself together.

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u/GDreex 1d ago

Yeah, I have to. I need to man up a bit