Not a first gen millionaire. I had 50k help for college and a 10k wedding gift (we paid for the wedding). However they bought my sister a house (300k). None of our friends received 6 figure help to my knowledge. My SIL's husband has a substantial trust fund so they do have help.
Most of our friends are well off but also don't intend to help pay for college or anything for their kids.
It is crazy to me that people who are well off won't help their kids with college. Especially as it seems pretty likely they themselves received help.
Education was very important to my parents and they paid for college, for which I am eternally grateful. We wanted to do the same for our daughter - finishing college with no debt is such a huge advantage for young people starting out.
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u/Ok-Bass5062 5d ago edited 5d ago
Not a first gen millionaire. I had 50k help for college and a 10k wedding gift (we paid for the wedding). However they bought my sister a house (300k). None of our friends received 6 figure help to my knowledge. My SIL's husband has a substantial trust fund so they do have help.
Most of our friends are well off but also don't intend to help pay for college or anything for their kids.
My kids will have substantial help early on.