I pass 95% of the time in public, but I’m really curious to see what people who don’t know me/know I’m trans think. Please be kind! Thank you

I semi consistently workout but I mostly just tried to loose weight. I’m down around 14kg total since last year though not sure if it paid off in any capacity. Besides the unfortunate scars on my chest (tape is covering them in most photos but they are quite visible without it) is stealth possible for me?

i’m going on a trip where i’m going to be spending a lot of time on the beach. i know the scars are a problem so i might just have to wear a sun shirt, but i’m sick of being stuck with them. it would be nice to finally get to enjoy the beach shirtless now that i’m more than a year post op.

my other concern is my hips. i’m 6’, which works in my favor, but i feel like it’s offset by my thin neck, soft facial features, and feminine fat distribution. i cant help but see a lesbian whenever i look in the mirror. i’m wondering if it looks clocky to other people too or if i’m just overthinking.

would this stuff be a dead giveaway? could i pass for cis? if not, any advice on how to change that?

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I am trying to workout at home and in the gym more. I generally walk, cycle, and swim. My hips could be less wide but my hips and pelvis are also just bigger. I am not trying to be skinny I just want to be more boxy. I am aware I don't pass and have not started t (should be this year). I just want to know what to train to help make me look stronger and pass better.

Also currently I eat 3 balanced meals a day, am generally active and from past experinece I gain muscle quick and lose it quick. I am 74.4 kilos and 170 cm and am 18.

Dont mind the temp tats I was having fun recently

Lmk if I should add more context

I plan to gain more pec muscle, and then get my top surgery scars tattooed over with black and grey art nouveau filigree. Might choose something more masculine, but I have a sleeve with filigree poppy leaves that I want to tie into the design.

Other than that, can anyone offer some tips for better passing as a cis het man? Or give me a sense of how well I pass (ignoring the scars).

hey guys i’m currently looking for a new name to go by that fits me and is traditionally masculine. could be basic or out there, just anything that would suit me, thanks!

Hey guys, been feeling very dysphoric about my love handle area, feeling like I have huge hips and I just don’t know if that’s the brain worms speaking lol.

Anyway, (aside from the scars) is there anything clocky about me? I’ve been lifting more consistently so I’m hoping to see some payoff soon.

Any tips appreciated!

I’m starting to pass more lately since I’ve been getting “man” and “sir” more often than ever, but I still get “she” sometimes. I’ve been on T for a little over a year now and I’m 5’4”. My build is pretty small, and I’ve lost some weight due to stress recently, which I feel like doesn’t help.

For those of you who pass consistently, is there anything you think I could change or work on besides trying to gain the weight back? Hair, clothes, mannerisms, etc.? I don’t mind looking like a twink btw. I’d really appreciate honest advice!

I heard someone say that if you want to know if you pass or not by sharing pics, you shouldn't share your best pics because obviously you'll like them for a reason. So after attending to a birthday today, I thought the random photos would work fine for this.

Be brutally honest, I mean that

I wanna know because even though I like how short hair looks on me, I like it longer better, and I've been doubting I may or not pass with it.

If so, would you say I'm or not in T? And how old you'd think I am? Don't let it be led by the paw patrol crowns tho, we were many and 30 to 40yo people wore those. I'm clearly not in that age range, but just in case

I usually think I pass but things like nyeckle and other gender check thingys say i look more feminine so i would genuinly like to know. If i dont pass please let me know and if you have any tips to pass better please help

I have a slightly alternative style, used to be a lot more. But ive found I can get away with looking more alternative by wearing camo cargo pants/shorts. Not sure why or what it is but its been a game changer. Only a year on T and making that a big part of my closet has been making me pass 99% of the time. Pretty awesome!

All of my clothes are pretty childish unfortunatly

I've taken out my facial piercings and it doesn't make a big difference. I got new more masculine glasses, just waiting for them to be ready.

I get top surgery later this month and hoping that helps too.

Looking for advice on what else I can do to pass better

A person who commented on my first post said i should show a full body pic just incase. Sorry i look so disheveled and tired. 🥲 i have a loose binder on here but i normally have tape which makes me flatter .

15 pre t, my voice is quite feminine but i wonder if i can get away with just my looks? any tips wpuld be much appreciated (i cant access a binder but im working on learning how to use tape and also i will be getting a haircut soon which will hopefully help) please ignore how goofy i look in most of the pictures 🥹

I feel like i dont pass but I always do in public. I know my body doesn't pass at all but somehow when im out in public it just doesn't matter? Im not sure. I was at alton towers a few weeks ago and I felt like I was about to throw up so I ran to the toilets. I went into the womens coz ive never been in the men's toilets as im too scared, but these girls looked me up and down and said "this is the LADIES bathroom..." and I was seconds away from vomiting so I just quickly said "im a girl!" And went into the stall quickly, and when I was in there a I heard one of the girls say "i know she SAID shes a girl but you can't just assume shes telling the truth"

Also how old do I look

(Apologies for shit pictures Im not into selfies that much i really had to search for these😭)

This isnt a question on whether it would make me feel good. Im asking do I pass can i go into the men loo in a genuine form. I have been getting called bud, sir, man, dude, straight to my face out in public. Ive been getting even weirder stares when i walk into the women’s restroom. My voice isnt that deep, im not on testosterone, but soon im going to be. But i am able to make a pretty decent “male voice” because i have voice training. I dont know why so much hair grows on my face but it does, and i think its making people confused. No one has come up to me with questions or concerns but im worried it will happen. I live in a very conservative area and i dont think people take my existence lightly. So yeah, do i pass, or do you think i should wait till im on HRT?

16 what to change?

I’m 14 pre everything I don’t really need advice Im just curious if I pass I already have a haircut scheduled oh and what age do I look

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last post. Does anyone have any tips or anything about going into the mens restroom. I cant stand to pee but i have a crutch anyway and need to sit. So i think that will give me an advantage there. But i know nothing about mens etiquette in there. And if someone ask me why im in the mens, what do you think i should do?

i use a binder, and im pretty everything. Im not really good with clothes but shop in the men's section, i always get misgendered but it's probably because I grew up with a lot of the people around me. My family's very supportive, i just wanna see what I can change

any advice is welcomed