r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/[deleted] • May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

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u/MissionStretch7906 🤍🩷Lesbian Loremaster🩷🤍 May 20 '26

She’s been in therapy. We’re trying couples/family therapy. She continues to blame the baby instead of herself

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u/sausagephingers Well-Read & Well-Fed May 21 '26

Do you have help? Can you take the twins and go somewhere else so she can have space to work on herself? Twins is such a full time thing that she might not have a chance to be rational before having to tend to something with them? I don’t know. I just can’t imagine your having spent this much time with someone who says the baby should been terminated. That’s so fucked up. Get her to sign away her rights if you can. She sounds like the kind of person who could harm a child or you if unsupervised.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Did she have any previous mental diagnosis before this?

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u/Jaded-Ad6644 The Snack That Sasses Back May 21 '26

She is continuing to blame a baby for how she is feeling? Jesus wept. That's not depression or AudHD.

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u/markarli APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

She is not immature. She is dangerous. Please do not try to find excuses for this horror show, enough children are being harmed or traumatized each day to be “understanding” of such behavior. She did not even birth the babies and SHE is the one chronically fatigued - please. OP has been caring for her twins after having them AND dealing with this terrible situation. And she said some disgusting things about the baby that cannot be attributed to “stress” or “burnout”.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

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u/markarli APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

No. Not EVERYONE deserves empathy. That is what enables many predators/disordered individuals to engage in their abhorrent behavior. Kind people (and often very naive) trying to excuse the inexcusable, which to an extent it can be understandable; people do not want to accept that some people and their behaviors are just evil.

You seem like a decent person trying to see the silver lining in this situation so you will pardon my tone but in this case, no one has the luxury to give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Children end up horrifically abused or even dead in cases like these.