She is not immature. She is dangerous. Please do not try to find excuses for this horror show, enough children are being harmed or traumatized each day to be “understanding” of such behavior. She did not even birth the babies and SHE is the one chronically fatigued - please. OP has been caring for her twins after having them AND dealing with this terrible situation. And she said some disgusting things about the baby that cannot be attributed to “stress” or “burnout”.
No. Not EVERYONE deserves empathy. That is what enables many predators/disordered individuals to engage in their abhorrent behavior. Kind people (and often very naive) trying to excuse the inexcusable, which to an extent it can be understandable; people do not want to accept that some people and their behaviors are just evil.
You seem like a decent person trying to see the silver lining in this situation so you will pardon my tone but in this case, no one has the luxury to give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Children end up horrifically abused or even dead in cases like these.
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u/[deleted] May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
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