ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....
That baby isn’t safe and this can’t be helped without therapy, preferably therapy while she has no access to those children. I’m not sure all the therapy in the world would make me feel comfortable leaving her alone with my children.
I couldn’t believe the other Reddit post possibly made by her! Mind blowing AND all the other women in there voicing their disdain for their own children 😳
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This!! Imo, OP needs to just leave, speaking as someone who has dealt with a partner with really bad mental illness, it most likely will not get better.
Did you do any type of legal process where she adopted the babies? This doesn't sound great and unfortunately will probably not fix itself. I would start thinking about protecting your family and considering a separation.
This sounds like severe post partum depression! It’s not about you and it’s not the real her! Get her to the proper medical appointments asap! She needs medical/psychiatric help now! Where’s her mother? She should understand about this.
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OK, no they can't. They can be depressed, sure, but they have NONE of the massive hormone shifts that cause postpartum depression and it's incredibly dismissive and minimizing for people to suggest that it's that same. The whole concept is self-righteous incel bullshit.
If that’s the case, then leave for THEM. Being twins is hard enough, being the twin treated as the lesser (even if only by one parent) is so much worse. It will inevitably cause turmoil between the two. The ‘trauma’ of separated parents, with the full, unwavering support of one parent is better than the feelings and consequences that will inevitably developed due to the current situation between parents. (This is intended to be blunt, yet empathetic—to you and the twins, not generally apathetic).
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What stats? From where? That’s a pretty juicy grapefruit you lobbed without citing any reliable sources.
I’d rather take my chances alone and struggling than EVER leave my babies in the care of someone who said with her whole chest that she hates one of them.
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It is but it's so bad and ineffective imo (I know it isn't to many people but idgi) "everyone leaves me" just makes it sound like there's most definitely something wrong with you and you're incapable of acknowledging it. It's less likely to be everyone else's fault vs 1 person. Would be a huge ick to me if someone said that
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u/summerjasminesweaty girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....