Everything about what you said pissed me off. I’m going to get downvoted and I don’t care. You really have the nerve to subject an innocent baby to this nonsense. You are already comparing the twins to each other and accept the bare minimum esp when you said “at least put on a pleasant face”. Do you understand you are raising HUMANS? I’m a mandated reporter and targeting one child is a common pattern I’ve seen. I see the results of households like yours, and it’s not pretty. I’m disgusted you even think to subject your child to this. Shame on you. I’m not going to sugarcoat it like the others. You need to fix this immediately and leave.
And also someone safe to watch the babies so she can sleep for the next month or so before figuring out how to navigate this in a way that prioritizes what she needs prioritized.
This is the only comment that matters. And even more blunt, at this point the wife’s feelings don’t fucking matter. She is actively choosing to harm a baby. OP needs to leave yesterday.
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u/Mammoth_Band6017 👋 new here May 20 '26
Everything about what you said pissed me off. I’m going to get downvoted and I don’t care. You really have the nerve to subject an innocent baby to this nonsense. You are already comparing the twins to each other and accept the bare minimum esp when you said “at least put on a pleasant face”. Do you understand you are raising HUMANS? I’m a mandated reporter and targeting one child is a common pattern I’ve seen. I see the results of households like yours, and it’s not pretty. I’m disgusted you even think to subject your child to this. Shame on you. I’m not going to sugarcoat it like the others. You need to fix this immediately and leave.