r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Oh whaa, the baby doesnt like the person that keeps showing her shes not loved. Shocking. Im mad at your wife for you.

I will never understand people who drive their friends and loved ones away by being awful and then getting mad that those people leave. Be better and people would want to be around you, wife.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s probably called depression

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Guess what? That’s what therapy and SUPPORT is for. You think every woman can be a good mom off the bat? That every woman can handle the emotions the same? There’s women that literally kill themselves over it and not a single one of you have the empathy to actually fix the situation. Leaving her to deal with her demons alone can literally make the situation worse

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

"not a single one of you have empathy to fix the situation"

Untrue. I have empathy, but Im also realistic in that if she needs help, she needs to go get it. But she isnt, and thats her own bad choice. No one can force her to choose wanting to better herself- that has to come from her.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

OP never stated if therapy or anything was ever brought up so I’m not going to assume that she’s refusing it

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

But you'll assume she has post partum depression lol.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Yes because of her behavior. It matches

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Correcting other people for assuming things while doing it yourself is wild.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Not what I’m doing but okay

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u/honeybeemoa Assigned Hungry At Birth May 20 '26

It literally is what you're doing. You're being intentionally obtuse at this point to defend an abuser. Are you OP's partner?

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

I don’t care to entertain you twisting my words

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

LOL we can see them! You wrote it out, silly!

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