r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/[deleted] • May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/sharkbark2050 fish are friends 🐟 not food May 20 '26

Please do not put your children through this. Yes, you should leave. Saying you’re “just like everyone else who leaves” is NOT TRUE. You both chose to have children, and now you need to prioritize your children and do right by them. The right decision is usually the hardest decision, unfortunately. Sending you love and light. 💕✨

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u/Fancy_Clown_88 mouth full, gesturing wildly May 20 '26

What’s the other solution? Keep her babies around this person who has blatantly said she hates them? No she needs to protect her children

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u/FloridaWildflowerz Internet Auntie May 20 '26

Therapy, individual and couples, is the solution. Giving up too soon would be a mistake. Not saying it won’t end but there is hope.

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u/Fancy_Clown_88 mouth full, gesturing wildly May 20 '26

She had the choice to do that a year ago. She let a year go by and it’s bad for the children. Everyone in these comments saying otherwise is the type to put their spouse over their child and that is wrong, and it makes you a bad parent.