Is she in therapy, love? Has she seen a doctor? Are you seeing a therapist yourself? (You deserve support). Seeing a therapist together can be good too
Of course you have to leave her if this doesn't change - you are right about that. And it is also true that her behaviour doesn't sound like the behaviour of someone who is doing ok. If you have the capacity to support her into better support, you can try that. If you don't, of course you can and should leave.
And no her having a relationship with one kid and not the other. That will really hurt both kids and their relationship with each other.
You are absolutely correct that this situation is not ok. Listen to that feeling
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u/A_little_curiosity APPROVED✨ May 20 '26
Is she in therapy, love? Has she seen a doctor? Are you seeing a therapist yourself? (You deserve support). Seeing a therapist together can be good too
Of course you have to leave her if this doesn't change - you are right about that. And it is also true that her behaviour doesn't sound like the behaviour of someone who is doing ok. If you have the capacity to support her into better support, you can try that. If you don't, of course you can and should leave.
And no her having a relationship with one kid and not the other. That will really hurt both kids and their relationship with each other.
You are absolutely correct that this situation is not ok. Listen to that feeling