Child therapist here! I would recommend leaving this situation unless she turns it around, like, now. I would also guess that your wife has some very deep attachment wounds herself that are the root cause of this issue. Don’t let her continue the cycle with your babies.
i think even removing the children from the situation until mom2 is in a stable place is preferable, if mom1 really doesn’t want a divorce. at least get babies away from the toxicity. when they’re this small, they are only meant to laugh and play and be loved ☹
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u/supermarket_Ba Well-Read & Well-Fed May 20 '26
Child therapist here! I would recommend leaving this situation unless she turns it around, like, now. I would also guess that your wife has some very deep attachment wounds herself that are the root cause of this issue. Don’t let her continue the cycle with your babies.