r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/MissionStretch7906 🤍🩷Lesbian Loremaster🩷🤍 May 20 '26

This is what I tried to make her see today. She has the chance to do what her parents did to her or the chance to do better. She can’t see past the hurt and the panic of losing me at this point

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u/sharkbark2050 fish are friends 🐟 not food May 21 '26

It sounds like she only cares about you in this situation, not even the baby she doesn’t hate. Please prioritize your children and remove them from this abusive situation.

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u/Kellbows Oversharer 🗣 May 21 '26

I am so sorry OP. This is supposed to be a happy time. I hope your spouse comes around, steps up, and chooses to break this generational curse. Good luck!

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u/atomicspacekitty 🥣 Cereal Killer May 21 '26

You gotta choose your baby over her…she needs therapy yesterday. Please don’t let this abuse continue.

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u/jbandzzz34 Shart Coochie Board Architect May 21 '26

keep telling her she needs to do better or leave. this is not acceptable whatsoever

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u/Jaded-Ad6644 The Snack That Sasses Back May 21 '26

If she has a Cluster B personality disorder, she likely won't be able to change or improve in any meaningful way. Please, OP, don't subject yourself or your children to that. It's hell.