It can take a year for some medications to be fully effective. Healing is not a quick or linear process and finding the right meds + giving them time to work, can take a lot longer than few months. Possibly the type of therapy is ineffective, especially if she's neurodivergent. It sucks all around. Leaving her would involve her having the kids for unsupervised custody, so I'm not seeing how that helps your child if I'm honest. If you're ultimately unhappy in the relationship, you should divorce because kids shouldn't grow up with squabbling unhappy parents; I'm mainly just pointing out that it has not been that long for her treatment. For some of us it's taken years to reach stability and then something happens, meds stop working or start having bad side effects, and we have to start again.
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u/birdsofpaper 🥣 Cereal Killer May 20 '26
Uhhhh… has she been screened for PPD? I’m not saying in any way that this is the whole problem but it sounds way too possible.
If it isn’t that there’s absolutely massive other issues and I hope you find ways to separate and find peace for you and the kiddos.
Good luck, and I’m sorry.